Alright.. so first off, i'm extremely embarrassed and feel vulnerable talking about this, as it is something that's personal and bothers me.. So, when my girlfriend and i, who've been together for nearly a year, when we are one on one, i love our time together. We have no problems are are perfectly happy When we are in group situations it's a lot of fun too, but for some reason which i cannot find out i feel, not quite upset, not mad, not overwhelmed, the feeling i get i can't really describe. maybe a little jealousy? Now I realize the feeling i get is due to unreasonable and selfish means.. when she gives other people attention for some stupid reason it bothers me!! Now I KNOW it shouldn't, I don't want her change that and i don't want her to not give people attention. That would not solve any problem if she didn't give other people attention since thats clearly what anyone should do when they're with other people. But for some reason, and it's one i can't figure out, I'm not as happy as when it's just us one on one.. I hate how I feel when it occurs and what I want to know is if it happens to other people and WHY i feel this way and how i can not feel this way. I am always telling myself to stop feeling this way about something so stupid and unreasonable, but at the same time when i tell myself it's not something for anyone to get worked up about, i still cant help that feeling. I know i need to relax and not worry about it, and i don't wish she had all her attention directed towards me. But when it's not all towards me, I'm not as happy. And that is what is driving me nuts, because i want to be just as happy, and i know i should, but i can't figure out WHY it bothers me and HOW to stop that bad feeling?! any helpful input?