Struggling to Pick Up Women?

Discussion in 'General Sex Discussion' started by TheShed, May 27, 2007.

  1. TheShed

    TheShed New Member

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    I've been on a couple of times recently and it seems like there is a bunch of you guys out there who are struggling to pick up women, whether it be for casual sex or a longer term relationship.

    I just wanted to post a quick recommendation for you all. If you're struggling to pick up women pick up a copy of "The Game" by Neil Strauss first. It's not the be all and end all of dating but it's a good start.

    Anyone else read it?
     
  2. happy

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    give us the highlights
     
  3. TheShed

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    Simple really

    Get some confidence
    Learn some set routines to break the ice
    Go from there.

    It gets a lot more complex but that's all you need to know. It just has a bit more power coming from a book rather than little old me!
     
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    When I read the title of this thread the smartass in me wanted to post, "If you are struggling, try to pick up smaller ones, then work your way up to bigger ones as you get stronger." :lol
     
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    the best is to have confidence and dont try to b someone your not.
     
  6. Clark

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    When I hear of a guy who's wanting to pick up women, I tell him...

    Get involved with things you like. If you like riding a bike, join a bike-riding group from your area. If you enjoy rock-climbing, join a rock-climbing group. Whatever. Get involved in the things that you like doing and you'll find other people (women and men) who also enjoy the same thing. Women in those groups will be easier to "pick up" because you already share a common passion.

    And, if you don't meet any women that way, at least you had fun doing something you enjoy and you might make some friends along the way.
     
  7. Retro101

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    good points

    according to something I read...the number one thing a women is attracted to in a man is confidence - then looks - then money.
     
  8. Charlie_Luciano

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    i'll never get why some guys always have trouble picking up women. Its easy, all u do is say the right things and your in.