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  1. Tech

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    I have a great girlfriend. she is much older but i love it, and she loves it - we both feel the same way about each other and it is love at its purist.

    even though I find myself highly unattractive, she thinks the opposite.

    she has a GREAT body... and BIG breasts.... and slim! It's like a dream come true! :)

    anyway, i love having sex with her, and being intimate. at first I was scared/worried but its gotten more easier and comfortable. Even to the point where I can lay naked in bed and sleep next to her.


    Problem is, for me - I dont feel sexual or arousable recently. I think it may have to do with stress and worry recently as I have been out of work for 3.5 months due to recession, money getting lower in the bank, clients screwing me over with work, not getting many interviews at all..... and because she has recently been submitted to hospital after having serious problems, but now is out thankfully and her almost being evicted out of her house for no fault of her own - I loaned her ALOT of money to stop the eviction.....


    Sure, we have sex maybe 2 times a day.... around 5 days a week to be frank, but recently we have seen each other quite a fair bit.

    I am wondering - is this normal for me? I just do not feel arousable...and its pretty sensitive down there....


    What can I do to make it better?

    Thanks!
     
  2. igor

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    You are asking us what's normal for you? :lol
     
  3. Tech

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    :) ha ha! :)
     
  4. Jaz70

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    :rose

    Of course it's normal...

    You're out of work, you have sex far too much and you're bored...

    Nothing to do with your partner..........perhaps.

    It's probably hard for a guy to understand, even when his body is screaming the obvious.... Start doing other things with her and slow down on the sex.... We do like to go out and eat occassionally...

    Hey... that was simple...


    Jaz
     
  5. Tech

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    thanks jaz :)
     
  6. WIguy

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    I think this is pretty normal. Everyone has ups and downs and things generally only get better.
     
  7. HardRocker

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    Pain and anxiety... that's how you know you're still alive.:D