Ok so we've been married over 3 years, together 8 years and for the first time ever he hasn't been in the mood for sex. I've always been a little insecure of myself so this has felt like a huge rejection to me. He swears it's not me, it's this thing he's been dealing with at work (he's beefing with a co-worker and it got the the point of them almost fighting the other day). I know this has been taking a toll on him because he's been so stressed and angry about the situation..... but never in a million years did I think it would affect our sex life this much. Guess I was just so sure that he was the typical male stereotype; needing a lot of sex to get stress, anger and such out of his system :ugh How do you men on here deal with these things? No sex or lots of sex?