Strapon

Discussion in 'Sexual Fetishes and Fantasies' started by 1978firebird, Jul 19, 2015.

  1. 1978firebird

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    Why is it so hard to find women who want to use a strapon on a guy?
     
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    I found one.....
    Look for the dominant type. They seem to enjoy it.
    Carefull though, they like to use whips too. :eek:

    Today was Strap-on Sunday for us and it was great:D
     
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    Yea but in Oklahoma it's hard , my wife has used a vib on me but she will not use a strapon, said she's not into that, and that I need to go find someone who will do that
     
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    Keep working on it, she may get comfortable and use the strap for you soon mine did eventually and we love it
     
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    You guys are very lucky
     
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    Before I understood, I thought "what's in it for me" and it seemed weird, plus I didn't want to hurt the guy/go too far.
    I'm more comfortable with it now. I might do it if asked.
     
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    I'm asking lol
     
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    Well played but I meant boyfriend asked.
     
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    Do you have one now in case he did ask u tonight?
     
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    I don't think so. Haven't heard from him since Friday.
     
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    That's a shame if u lived in oklahoma I would be asking lol
     
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    My wife was the same way. Now she loves doing it. She calls it her workout. She finally realizes how much work it is for a guy sometimes and why we get tired, lol.
     
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    It's kinda funny how it worked out for me. I brought it up once and she wasn't really interested. Then later on we were watching one of her reality shows (kardashians I think) and they were talking about it and she turned to me and said "that would be hot, we should try it!"

    Sorry I don't have any advice regarding finding someone who would be interested.
     
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    I tried with 2 different partners. I got both to put on the belt and strap on the dildo, but neither would go any further.
     
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    Maybe i just lucky, i an okie as well and my gal will. Ut not as often as i would like.......
     
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    It seems to freak a lot of women out but I've been lucky. Both of my ex wives liked using strap ons or dildos on me. My girlfriend now knows a I like that but shys away from it so I just do it solo
     
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    I'd be afraid of hurting him. I think of I watched him a few times, I'd feel better about it.
     
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    Haha, you're nicer than my girlfriend. She refers to it as "payback"
     
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    Lol!
     
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    Maybe not.

    If I'm fucking you in the ass, you can't be fucking me in the ass and I like it in the ass so maybe that's why I wouldn't do it.
    I'm selfish and I want to be fucked! Lol