[Ask a Girl] Strap-on

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  1. dilligaf

    dilligaf New Member

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    Ladies the wife is thinking of getting a strap-on to use on me. Any ideas of which one to buy.
     
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    So no help with this one. Thanks
     
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    I am not sure what help you need except for you choosing what length and width you think you can take and then hold on for the ride :)
     
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    I don't know anything about strap-ons because I've never used one. I did see on this site, something called the Feeldoe and it is by far the most interesting thing to me. Here is the link to the thread. http://www.sexualforums.com/36952-feeldoe.html
     
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    The feeldoe is a terrible one to start out with and it's insanely priced. If you're wanting to spend 100-200 dollars with the chance of it not working out for you? Go ahead.

    Some say I'm the resident toy person here (as I sell them via website).

    From experience, I suggest using the "bend over beginners harness kit" it comes in purple and black and fits damn near any size woman unless she's as big as a house. It comes with three size beginner "dildos" and three interchangeable rings for using your own toys. Has a padded vibrating cover where it sits against the woman so she gets pleasure as well as you.

    That will run you between 85-100 bucks. Granted, that seems expensive but it's a quality harness that we've had for years that works wonders. Plus the dildos are totally smooth and make for IDEAL anal use.
     
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    The key is get a getting a good harness. Then getting a few good dildos, because one you get more into gender play you will then want different sizes at different times. But id say definitely start slim! So good luck have fun and for sure stay safe!! Keep us posted!

    And take the advice from Mittimer about the feeldoe to heart!! that thing is TRASH and very overpriced!!
     
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    Butt!!! They make it look quite fun! It's like I could use it and the girl as my toy!

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    Oh yes I'm with you on that!! We saw it and thought it was gonna be the greatest thing our sexlife ever seen!! it slips out of my wife like every 3 seconds if she isnt holding it. And she is very tight too!!
     
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    My wife bought one, surprised me with it. She loved the roll reversal. I'm not sure what it was but she came a few times when pounding me. It was big, hurt like hell. But I kinda liked the pain.

    It didn't feel as good as I thought it would though.
     
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    i think u should start with a new comer strap on kit, which includes the dildo, it cost effective and perfect for someone just starting out.
     
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    Last week I used one on my hubby for the first time we used the "Sharon Sloane Latex Peni Panty" it was a lot of fun, we had to take it really slow because of the size it may be better to start of with a smaller one.
     
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    Thanks for your advice everyone. Haven't bought one yet but will let you know how things go