[Ask a Girl] strap on advice

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  1. kandj

    kandj New Member

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    Hello ladies I recently bougt a beginners strap on and the wife has absolutely no desire to try it out and im extremely interested in it is there any of you that can offer any advice to get her to let lose or any of your own experience with them thanks
     
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    Did you talk to her about it before you bought it to see if she would be willing to try?
     
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    Ya we have talked about it in the past and been back and fourth on the idea and when it showed up she wants nothing to do with it
     
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    Can you use it alone?

    I'd be scared I'd hurt you. Maybe she is too?
     
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    Would she be willing to watch you use it on yourself so she can see how much pleasure it gives you?
     
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    Im sure I could use it alone and we havent talked about it anymore didnt want to push the subject to hard so maybe ill suggest her watching
     
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