Straight men dream of being with other men?

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  1. Vanja

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    A girlfriend of mine was saying this today - that straight men think and fantasize pretty frequently about other men but still don't have "gay tendencies"?

    What does this mean? Where's the line? When do gay fantasies make you gay?

    Any thoughts?
     
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    I wonder where she got this idea. I, for one, never thing about other guys (except to maybe envy them for their female partners) :lol
     
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    Only in the sense that I've dreamed of watching my wife with another guy or guys, or participating in a threesome with one.

    I recall once randomly that a guy in my dream pressed his dick against mine (like, in a size comparison fashion) but that was the extent of it, and I've never dreamed or fantasized about other men alone or directly aside from that, so I'm not sure she is correct unless she is including that sort of indirect stuff.
     
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    Yep, dreamed of it almost all of my life then happened two weekends ago but then the catalyst was a girl less than half of our age.
    Did not give a crap about him, nor he for me but together us........... wow Magic for three!
    Still cannot believe it happened and it's going to take something Big to beat that experience.
     
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    Male sexual thoughts have never even occurred to me, so I guess that must mean I just don't swing that way.
    As far as the gay/straight line, I wouldn't bother to call anything that black and white, and I don't think fantasies or thoughts make anyone anything other than possibly curious, or even open minded.
     
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    I might let a guy suck my cock, but I'm not going to have a relationship with him. I do not find guys attractive at all even though I enjoy the act. I think this is what your friend is talking about.

    Guys are hairy and generally not as pretty as women are
     
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    Nope! The idea horrifies me!
     
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    You cannot help your dreams. I have dreams so bizarre I'd be locked up if I attempted to act them out. Can't say I have dreamt about homosexual acts but knowing me I probably will tonight now.
     
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    This seems to be a taboo topic for most men. I dont consider myself bi or gay. However I am attracted to the way a penis looks. There are times when i fantasize about what it would be like to suck a nice shaven juicy cock. I have no desire to have a dick in my ass or put my dick in some other guys' ass but I do think I would love to suck a cock. To me the right cock is very attractive and sexy and I am not completely opposed to the idea of sucking one someday. So people can judge me but thats just the way I feel.
     
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    exactly!

    minus the ass part...LOL...
     
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    I'm pretty much the same; strap-ons are great, but I don't know about the real thing with a male; shemale's tho, I could probably go for
     
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    Dont want his dick up my ass nor mine up his, but I would love to swirl a big juicy cock in my mouth and make him cum...that is exciting.
     
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    A shemale would be cool too
     
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    Ok, I'm assuming that a shemale *could* get in your "backdoor" then? Or what? :D
     
  15. HardRocker

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    I believe the closest SF member we have to being an expert on this is Fantasien. I think I remember him saying those shemales doing porn have to stop their hormones for a while in order to get hard erections.

    I've also heard there are serious health risks to starting and stopping those meds, so probably the majority of she-hes that you'd meet around town couldn't manage squeeze it up the old poop chute.

    I could be mistaken, maybe Fantasien will weigh in on this subject and clear that up for us.
     
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    I'm very much the same way, and chances are I will have a dream involving another man tonight.
     
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    Well, did ya? ???
     
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    Why is that?
     
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    I will weigh in on it for a while. Although I do not have First hand experience, Yet, I will do my research. But actually I think I was a little on the way side on that fact
    . They stop and can possibly get erections, but they definitely can not cum. Unless they are "special."
     
  20. HardRocker

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    I guess I was mistaken. I think I remember that from a thread in the AMM we were discussing a while back. I don't remember what it was about. No cum makes sense. Years ago, when I took high doses of the steroid solumedrol (IVprednisone) for a medical condition, I stopped making semen. I could still feel an ejaculation but it was dry and weak.