Stopping in to say HI

Discussion in 'The Lounge' started by luvbug, Dec 11, 2013.

  1. luvbug

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    Been a while since I was last here. Ive had a lot of things going on IRL. Most recently....my dad was hospitalized Nov 13th and passed away Nov 21. I was by his side when he went.

    Im utterly devastated. I was a daddys girl. He was always there for me....my rock....my best friend. I am so lost with out him.

    We are having his memorial service this Saturday.....I really dont know if I can handle it.
    Im trying to get the last minute things done for it....in between crying.

    Not sure when I will be back again.....but I will.

    Just need some time for myself right now.

    Hope everyone has a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year if I dont get back before the new years.
     
  2. HotForHoney

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    I'm sorry to hear about your dad.
    I'm sure he's okay knowing how much you loved him and how much you miss him.

    It's a rough time of year. Don't let anyone tell you have/when you should grieve.

    I hope the service Saturday is easy and you can find some peace.
     
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  3. Silverfox

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    Take care of yourself. Time will heal, but you'll never forget.
     
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  4. alwaystry

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    I am so sorry for your lost. Try and have a merry christmas and take care , see you soon
     
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  5. lbushwalker

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    Condolences LuvBug, nothing but time can dull the ache but know that you are amongst supporting friends here.
    Bush
     
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    Sorry to hear about your loss LuvBug :( Your loss will hurt and sting for a bit, but you'll always have the special and fond memories along with all the love that will be in your heart and mind forever.
     
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  7. luvbug

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    Thank you all. I'm dreading Saturday with a passion. I'm glad my dad isn't suffering anymore. But damn this hurts!! :(
     
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    Baby, take care of yourself.
     
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    It's hard silver. All I do is cry. I was a daddy's girl. I know Saturday will be really hard... :(
    Thank you.