I am currently 33 and married. I lost my virginity in medical school at age of 23! My wife lost hers with what would be her first husband at 16 (now she 36 and has almost a decade more of experience). My sexual history is not pristine however I had long periods of time without any sex - sometimes years. What is strange is I feel that sex is an important part of my life. Also I have always been physically fit and described as handsome. My sexual past though is so abnormal though - virginity lost at 23, long periods of time between serious girlfriend and now at 33 having more sex that ever in my past since i have been married for a year. I hate feeling so "uncool" and that I should have been having a lot more fun for the twenty years!!!