[Ask a Girl] Squirting

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  1. IloveSex415

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    Sorry if this belongs in the Sexual Fetishes thread but, I'm curious about female ejaculation. Bare with me, as someone else has most likely posted this before. I've watched a decent amount of porn. I've see girls squirt in squirt specific video and in non squirt videos.
    I have never made a girl squirt before but a lately I have been trying. I know all girls are different. Mainly during foreplay I try to stimulate her 'g-spot' the upper area of her vagina as best I can. With occasional clitoral stimulation. When I'm playing with a girl sometimes she will push my hand away either because she's going to cum and is afraid she might squirt or I'm being stuff rough.
    Either way, I know the best way is probably to talk with my partner about it...but I have not found a person with whom I'm comfortable enough with to share this with. I guess I'm asking just for reference. Currently I don't have a gf and I have tried this on a few of my recent gf's just to see if any of them would, or would at least warn me. Thanks in advance for any pertinent advice.
     
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    So there's your answer. When you find a person you're comfortable enough with, all kinds of things will open up for you and her together. Make that your priority. Good luck.
     
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    I think if a woman and I am comfortable enough for me to have a finger in her vagina, we are comfortable enough to talk... since we would have crossed that bridge before she spread her legs for me. But yeah, you are right, probably the only way to figure it out without irritating her is to ask.
     
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    Thank you both your your suggestions about talking with my partner :). I agree that's the best policy. I hope with time, a girl or guy will reply to this post (not a porn star) that will tell me their experience and how they achieved a squirting orgasm.
     
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    I'm going to echo what everyone else is saying. If you're comfortable enough to have sex with the girl, you should be comfortable enough to at least talk about sex with them. If not, then well..you've got yourself an entirely different problem then when you originally started.
     
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    Go to Tags and click on "Squirt" and "Squirting" and you will get plenty of reading material.
     
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    I can talk about sex with her and we do, just not squirting. I guess I'm shy which is most of the problem. I would feel uncomfortable telling her that I want her to squirt. I should probably phrase it that I want her to have a powerful orgasm, in hopes that she would ejaculate.
    Mittimer, you are right. I do have problems, relationship problems but, I will leave those for another thread. Thanks for taking time to reply in such a short time.

    Edit: After some searching, I knew this would have been covered before, I should have searched. There was a thread exactly like this (no surprise), with no replies from people who have actually squirted or witnessed a female squirt. I guess my hope for for such a reply. I'm beginning to think squirting only happens within pornographic films.

    Edit2: Just thought I'd share.
     
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    To give you information on what you're looking for I guess I'll start. I have in fact squirted and do still do it on occasion if in the proper position.
    I actually found out that I could by complete accident. I was in my bedroom sitting in the floor chair that I have (it's a smaller version of like a video gaming chair). It's angled so that you're tilted slightly back and due to the fact that it's flat on the floor, my knees were bent up and legs spread wide.

    I was using a regular dildo, just wanting to feel my pussy filled up. Started out really slow just sliding it in and out kind of rocking back and forth with the chair. I got an odd sensation that just felt really good so I kept going, a bit faster fucking myself shallow and fast with the dildo and all of a sudden WOOSH. I had a super strong orgasm rocking me to the core and exploding all over my wood floor in my bedroom! I laughed and got out a towel to mop up my mess.

    Since then whenever I want to have a deep g-spot orgasm, I do something similar. Normally with my back against the wall or headboard fucking myself. Or if my fiancee takes my legs and has then straight up against his shoulders while he's fucking me, he hits my gspot perfectly and it just rockets me over the edge and I give him quite a shower. :)


    Hopefully that's some sort of help.
     
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    Thanks for the tips Mittimer. One day I will share with someone I trust that I like squirting, and if they are interested that's cool. And if they aren't that's also fine. I should have researched this forum, before posting this thread. I have done research online, just wondered if anyone would share their personal stories, and you did. Thanks.
     
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    You're welcome.
     
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    If you and the girl are comfortable enough, I don't see how she wouldn't be down for trying to squirt unless she finds it gross. Its like getting a handjob for them but a lot better. My gf loves when I try to get her to squirt. I have seen her gush several times. It's not to hard to get in the right position to get to her squirt, use a finger or two to put pressure on her gspot and stimulate how she likes it.
     
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    Wow man, I promise I'll read that if you could put some paragraph breaks in it. It's like a brick wall of text.:p

    Not at all meant to offend, okay.

    HR
     
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    Yah, I got cross-eyed about halfway through.

    ~Steve
     
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    I will Post again with paragraphs Sorry!!!

     
  16. thewiseman

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    Okay everybody, I was asked to reply to this post by another member here, because of my knowledge on this subject. Let me start maybe this will help the curiosity on the forum, and please excuse my miss spells I rely on Micro 2007 check spelling. I met my wife about 7 years ago and as things went on we dated then we had our moment SEX. As time went on every time see would orgasm she would clam up and scissor lock me or push my hand away our takes hers off if she was masturbating for me. I never could figure out why she would do that, It was like she was trying to stop her own orgasm.

    Well as time went on, I had ask her why she does it and she replied with a giggle "I don't know, just tickles" so I didn't mention it again figured just her way. Well one night we were having sex and playing games with each other to break the usual activity we do, she wanted to play truth or dare. I was kind of very erect at the time and ready for intercourse you know, I'm going to blow, but out of love for her I went along. She dared me first. It was simple, act like a male stripper, then it was my turn I told her to tell me one of her secret sex experiences, you know couples don't hide anything and anyways it turns me on for her to talk about her past sex life with her other partners.

    Well she told me about a night that she was having sex with her ex and something happened which was very embarrassing when he brought her to orgasm which she stated he was rather large and she got into detail, saying how good it felt and that she was coming up to the biggest orgasm she had ever had. And then It happened she orgasmed and it was so intense she pushed him and began fingering herself and that’s when it happened. She started to blush and wouldn't tell me, so I got angered because she let me down and didn't finish the story.

    She replied I can't tell you I have to so you. So she grabbed the dildo and put it in her vagina and started to really get into it like never before, why she was getting it on with the dildo I ask her why she was so into it, she said that she was having to fantasize about that night with her ex which I didn't care we are all guilty as charged. Then all of sudden she told me to be quite and watch NO PROBLEM so I sat back on the bed and watched. She really started to trust the dildo deep and hard and also started to finger herself as she moaned and moved her hips as if she was really getting fucked by this ex. And now the moment of truth, I could tell she was going to have her orgasm, she was yelling Oh yes Oh yes than boom she orgasmed and pulled out the dildo and squirted all over the bed. I was like wow, and she would not stop squirting she turned the whole bed wet she squirted for about 2 minutes of and on. After wards, I asked was that what she was hidding by clamming up during her orgasm and she replied Yes with a capital Y.

    From that point on she was the queen she can do it on demand. Now as Paul Harvey would say "and now the rest of the story". She has told me that any girl can do it she just has to learn what to move down there, she said kind of like a guy moving his penis. A girl just has to learn what to do. She taught herself after her first squirt with her ex by masturbating when she was in high school, she told me just about the time she started to orgasm the first time she squirted with her ex, she could fill something in her vagina getting intense and she said she concentrated on making it come out of her pussy and it did and now that’s what she does when she fingers her pussy.

    Now she knows exactly what to do and can do it anytime she wants but more show during the Big O. I like it best when she masturbates for me, but it is great to during intercourse because it gives you a very warm and wet sensation to your Dick which will make you blow a lode in a second. I do have a video of this, I promise you it's better than any video on Redtube because it real, not some photo shot squirt for the camera porn. I did let my best friend watch it one night and he agreed it was the best he had seen and he watches more porn than anyone I know, my friend begged me to let him watch her in real life I tried to talk the wife into but she only says maybe one day. He was so turned on he had to go jack off in the bathroom. I wished I could show you guys and gals the video but I respect my wife more than that If she would agree I would upload to Redtube, but I doubt it will ever happen. PS: She tries not to do it when I'm being oral with her so I told her to one night and she did, It was great it was like putting your head to the sink and turning on the warm water. If my wife were to have something to say to the girls she would say "keep trying it will come".
     
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    If your lady is pushing you away, it could be that she has never experienced this before and feels like she is going to pee herself. I have been with someone where this was the case and they didn't want to let it go that far because she thought she was going to pee herself. They key to this as everyone else has said is to talk to your partner. If she says this is the problem then you must reassure her that whatever happens, it is not the end of the world if she does accidentally pee a little. This is how you learn, by trial. But yes please communicate :)