Squirt or Pee.

Discussion in 'Sexual Foreplay and Techniques' started by chuckz1487, Jan 22, 2005.

  1. chuckz1487

    chuckz1487 New Member

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    whenever me and my girlfriend have sex , after doin it for a while she says she has an urge to pee. is that she gonna cum or pee?
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    Logger Gold Member

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    Dear Chuck Z 1487,

    Sometimes my wife goes to the potty and pees, after I have been playing for a while. The bladder is in the area of the vagina, and the pressure on the blader is a primary factor in feeling to have to go pee. before starting sex, there is probably no extra pressure on the bladder, so GF may not feel like going to try to pee, until after your rod is crowding her bladder.

    I have experienced some frustration, just when I start grooving, my wife remembers she has to go pee. I have to get de-excited, and dismount, and wait for her to go pee. If I am lucky, and she comes directly back to me, I still have to get her warmed up again, after I have been going hot.

    I believe that most women have distinctly different feelings between peeing, and climaxing. Yes, it is liquid coming out the same hole, but I am confident that your GF knows the difference between peeing and climaxing. However, that does not solve your feeling of getting stopped.

    You might take the leadership initiative, to ask GF earlier in the sequence of sexual events, if she wants to empty her bladder, before you build up a full head of steam, and it is going to be exasperating to stop for a pee break.

    Maybe that is an advantage for guys who have a small peter, or for those who are content with minimal depth of insertion, so that your partner does not have to take a pee break in the middle of sex.

    Blessings

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    bed pan works better
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    chuckz1487 New Member

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    Pleasure

    she says it feels good though and doesnt want me to stop and when she does go ot teh bathroom notin coms out
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    Its pressure against the bladder.When you stop she might not have to pee anyway.
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    it is NOT pressure agianst the bladder Chuckz1487. What this is, is u are stimulating her G-spot. Whenever there is pressure against the woman's G-spot, she feels the urge to pee. Like you said, sometimes she goes to the bathroom and nothing comes out. She just wasted quality time in bed and u could have given her an amazing orgasm. But when she comes back u have to go back into pre-heat mode. It's a killer for both parties. The difference is, when the g-spot is stimulated, she feels the urge to pee but it's pretty much impossible to pee when having an orgasm. The liquid that might come out if u continue to hit that spot and she lets it go (to her letting it go is pretty much the same feeling as letting herself pee) is female ejaculate. It comes out the same spot but it is NOT pee. If you assure her it can't be pee and u want it to happen because u think it's sexy, you can keep going and when she cums, it will be a very sexy and sensual sensation for her and you. Believe me, I have made some girls cum like this and "squirt" before and yet some have stopped me like your GF does and its SUCH a mood killer. The girl just doesn't understand it is a different kind of orgasm because she's never let it happen. The liquid that comes out is usually colorless or mayble slightly cloudy in color, it is usually odorless as well. Read more on the G-spot in websites...you will find more about it. Again...it is not pressure against the bladder and she really won't pee, but she will cum if she lets it go.
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    Well said heiadn27 !!

    Chuckz1487:

    Why not test this out and both of you keep going without the bathroom break?

    The worse thing possible is that she does in fact urinate, a one off thing. Not that bad even if it were to happen.

    The upside of the perceived risk is that she has a mind blowing squirting orgasm!

    Surely that is worth a gamble either way?
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    Does anyone have any good references on learning to squirt? My wife and I would like to experience this but she is having a hard time getting past her urge to pee.
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    I often feel like i need to pee also, but know I won't. Its a weird feeling.
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    Just keep going - it won't be pee, trust me!
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    Ive had to stop because of the urge to pee....my husband gets upset and tells me its squirt.....but i cant help but feel/think i have to go. when i go, i tell you, it is the STRONGEST stream EVER.....and so it leaves me wondering still, if its pee or squirt. I mean had I kept going would I have peed on him? i get suspicious when i watch squirt porn and the chick is like, going for 30 secs..... is there a normal amount of female ejaculate?
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    I think squirting is pee. I have had vaginal orgasms before and know a few women that have also and a few that do the spurting thing and we all agree its just pee.
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    It's probably pee, but likely because she's super stimulated...
    The secretion from vaginal orgasm is slimier... :)
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    Yeah I highly doubt there's a mechanism of sorts down there to distinguish the two. Its not like a man's penis, where urine and cum exit. I mean, if that's your twist, fine by me..... I still find it intriguing.

    squirting pee.....or a pee squirt.....:uhh:
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    It's pressure building up in her G Spot. If she has the urge to pee, flip her over onto her back and start masturbating her clit. If she doesn't hold back she will squirt.

    For YEARS, my wife would interrupt sex to go pee. After awhile I did a little research and found out what it was. She always rejected the idea of squirting and thought she couldn't do it... until.. I told her to relax and put her on her back with a towel nearby. She gushed and squirted all over the place. Now she loves squirting.

    So that's exactly what it is. You don't need to stick your fingers in her or anything... when the urge is there.. just play with her clit.
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    Duly noted..... gosh, I wonder what your mattress looks like, lol
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    Its best for her to pee right before sex. So she knows that her bladder is empty. I would just reassure her and tell her to relax and let it go. It feels like you just peed all over the place. Girls are not use to cumming and peeing from the same place. So we panic and get scared.
  18. EthanAndrews

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    lol... Yeah it gets a little messy sometimes. But we plan ahead if we know she is going to squirt. She tries not to squirt while we're on the bed. Usually we move to the lazy boy or something like that and put towels on the floor.
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