Alright, here's the nub and gist of my situation. Boyfriend used to have nothing but boring sex. I used to do every position I could. Then we got together. Now, boyfriend wants to have crazy amounts of doggy-style and anal and I... really do like adventure, but I'm kinda craving vanilla. How do I say this to him without getting that droopy disappointed look? I really love reminding him that I like adventure, and I know he loves that, but how do I get "vanilla" back when he gets off easier/better with "other flavors"? Apologies for the choppiness of my question... that's the easiest way I can think to explain it. EDIT: It should be noted that we have been dating for 2 years, and it's not just a case of mis-matched libidos.