Ok, to start off, my ex-husband and father of our 2 kids, unfortunately, do not get along. I try to be nice and civil but I am getting pushed to the edge! This past weekend was his weekend with the kids. My girl will be 8 yrs old in about a week and a half and my boy will be 4 yrs old in about 3 weeks. Anyways, during this last visit, him and his new wife set up my 8 yr old daughter a MySpace account. She has asked me repeatedly for one and I ofcourse have refused because I know of the internet pervs out there and the danger of children on the internet like that. I confronted him and told him I wish he/they would respect my wishes concerning the kids safety, in which he, with the kids present, proceeded to get in my face, pointing his finger and yelling at me a bunch of nonsense. After I got home and learned they would not even let her add me as a "friend" on there, I contacted MySpace and had the account deleted for being under age and false information. I set down with her and pulled up the MySpace terms of service and showed her that you had to be over 13 yrs of age and could not falsify your age or any other info and that the account would be deleted if so had been done. I also explained to her it was against the law for her to have one and mildly (meaning not explaining in detail and having her fear for her life) explained the dangers of her having one being so young. Shortly after it was deleted, she recieved a call from here Dad asking why it was deleted and she pretty much explained to him the way I explained to her why and he proceeded to tell her that he approved it and would take care of it. I then told her it would not happen, that no matter what it was against the law and compared if someone 17 tried to get into a bar or club, they couldn't because the law requires you to be 18 or 21 (depending on the bar). She understood and agreed that as she gets older she gains more privileges. I also promised her a secured and parent maintained membership to Miley Cyrus' fan club for her birthday (and yes I researched it). After this has been said and done I recieved an email from his brother cussing me out and saying I am only out to hurt my children to get back at him. No! I am the one trying to be civil and keep my children safe, if it is MySpace or him taking both of them out on a motorcycle WITHOUT helmets. I care of my kids safety and it seems if I say no he does it out of spite! Sorry all, just needed to get it off my chest. Thanks for listening!