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Discussion in 'General Sex Discussion' started by daisy, Mar 16, 2007.

  1. daisy

    daisy New Member

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    This is my first proper post guys so am a bit shy:eek:
    Firstly- this is any excellent site- really friendly and useful.
    Does anyone have any tips for pain free anal sex? I really love it but sometimes i nearly pass out with the pain and have to stop. (Lube is a given)
     
  2. barbie

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    Hi Daisy and welcome.
    Sex shouldn't be giving you pain.
    I suggest you see your doctor.
    Is he unusualy large,or overly rough ?
    And have you talked to him about it?
    If you are using plenty of lube and it still hurts
    you really need to get it checked out.
     
  3. daisy

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    Thanks, they are top links. Lots of info.
    :)
     
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    Rose Resident Sexy Grandma
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    Enough can not be said for not attempting anal penetration until you are extremely turned on. EVERYTHING relaxes, when you are in your peak-performance time. Also, plenty of anal foreplay... starting out very lightly. Just brushing the opening, getting all those sensations worked up. Gradually allowing your partner to insert a finger, SLOWLY! Give it a break for a while, then go at it again, increasing the insertion.

    There are times when the butt just won't take it, no matter what you do to prepare. You have to listen to your body, and don't force the issue. You'll get another chance later.
     
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