Something New To Me

Discussion in 'General Sex Discussion' started by Squirt, Sep 17, 2009.

  1. Squirt

    Squirt New Member

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    I maybe having yet another interesting weekend coming up. I'm a little nervous about it but very interested.

    I guess you can say I'm bi-curious. I'm attracted to women, fantasies of being with another woman, I watch porn for the women, etc... Needless to say I have never been with one. My boyfriend knows all of this and of course is turned on by it. We have discussed a 3some quite a bit but both hesitate on thinking of diving right in.

    Now he is in the works of planning an outing this weekend to a full nude strip club. The closest one (the one he is planning with an overnight stay in the town) is about 45 miles away. It is not a high class joint but could be alot worse from what I understand.

    He has also requested that I wear a skirt and look hot/kind of slutty. It is what he likes here at home. I'm not one to dress that way out of the house, but since it is out of town I'm willing to go for it. He would also, if I'm ok with it when it comes down to it, like to get me a private dance and him watch and then him with me watching (which would turn me on).

    I'm honestly really excited about all of this (mine and his dance included) but I'm nervous because I don't know what to expect. I know that it will be noisy and smokey with a bunch of naked girls rubbing all over my man. What should I expect for me? What are my limitations/restrictions? How should I act? I've read around on the internet but I'm still not sure. Please help!!!

    I want this to be a great night for both of us. So if you have any suggestions or ideas about everything, man or woman, please feel free to give some detailed feedback. Will post again with details in the aftermath.
     
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    My wife was curious about strip clubs too, so we have visited a few, several years ago now. Some were completely nude and others were only topless. Sitting up close to the brightly lit dance stage is fun for a while, but it takes a lot of dollar bills if you want the attention of the girls. Most of the clubs we've been to have really pretty girls, and a couple have had some icky ones. I have heard on many occasions that the girls are mostly lesbians, and they all say they are making money to support their child, go to college, etc.; the standard line.

    If you want to have a girl sit and talk to you, you have to buy her expensive drinks (which have no alcohol), and pay for personal dances. Most clubs have pool tables and game rooms so you can move around and not have to just sit and gawk the whole time.

    As for rubbing, I have never been to a club where the customers and the girls are allowed any real body contact such as rubbing all over him, as you mentioned. Customers are strictly prohibited from touching, period. I don't know about the back room though, never had that much cash.

    The only answer I have for your question about how you should act is: don't act, just watch and enjoy. Go with the flow. Look around and see what the other women act like, but I wouldn't necessarily follow their lead. After a couple of beers(liquor drinks are weak rip-offs) you'll be okay.:)

    I hope it turns out to be fun, so come back and give us a report. Maybe y'all will have some really hot sex later that night. You can tell us about that too if you like.;)
     
  3. Squirt

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    So, we finally went to a titty bar last night. LMAO! Pretty much 2 months after this post.

    He has been out of town for work and couldn't come home for the weekend so I went to see him. We drove down to Shreveport to hit the casinos and whatever Saturday night. We got a hotel and was looking through a book in the room about what there was to do and noticed an advertisement for the "Hustler's Club". (I think that was what it was called)

    First we go and eat dinner and then hit the casino, we lost our asses there. I mean absolutely didn't win a damn thing. Then we head back to the hotel to freshen up and then hit the hotel bar for a couple drinks. After that we catch a cab to the club and I was nervous as hell. Looking forward to it but not for sure how I would react if some woman come rubbing up on my man.

    We get there and go in, pick a table just off the main stage, and he pulls out the $1. After a few minutes he notices I like the girl that is on stage and tells me to walk up there and tip her. Since I had a few beers in me I obliged. It was so hot, I absolutely love it! Sorry if I sound crazy but it was literally the first time I have ever seen boobs in the flesh besides my own. It was a wonderful night but I was disappointed that even after request not one girl came over to give a lap or private dance, and yes ;) I was tipping generously.

    I was very pleased with my man, as he did not even get close or tip one woman. I wasn't sure how I would feel about it and mentioned it to him before. He simply set back and enjoyed watching me watching the girls.

    Needless to say the night continued after we left with some really hot sex (I would give details but was pretty drunk and cannot recall all of them) and into the next morning when we woke up.

    We were both a little disappointed in the club since I didn't get a dance, but I thought the girls were hot. It was a wonderful weekend that really helped us reconnect and I think we or at least I needed that.
     
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    That's great.You've never seen another woman's boobs, really? How about down below, did they have their you-know-whats covered up?:p
    Glad y'all had fun. :D
     
  5. marrydavidson101

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    So I saw this video of a girl who started squirting when she had her orgasm but it almost looked like she peed... I've heard about squirting but never seen it before (I don't watch a lot of porn) and it seemed she squirted so much... I had thought a girl squirt would be more like a guy squirt. So my question is whether the big squirt videos are pee? Or fake in some other way? I know you shouldn't believe all you see in porn. Or can some girls really squirt like a fire hose when they come?
     
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    Welcome to Sexual Forums, marrydavidson101. Please help us keep the topics on subject. This thread is about the OP visiting a nude dancing club (her name is Squirt).

    If you will click on the Tags link at the top of the page, you can find threads where we have discussed squirting. Or start a new thread if you wish.

     
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