somebody help me. i cant stop.

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  1. mendingwalls

    mendingwalls New Member

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    I CANT STOP HAVING SEX WITH MY EX GF!!! i despise her sooo much, but everytime i get a little horny i call her and we have sex. the only reason she keeps coming over is because she wants me back and she always tries to start a fight with me as soon as were done to draw me back in.

    its like a drug. she turns me on so much. shes half mexican with dark skin and black hair and speaks fluent spanish. im getting hard thinking about her right now. we have the most amazing sex together. not a single other girl ive ever been with can even remotely compare to the unbelievable sex we have. she even let me put it in her ass once and it was incredible. SOMEBODY PLEASE TELL ME WHAT TO DO! I WANT NOTHING TO DO WITH HER!!! I HATE HER!!!

    im gunna go call her right now...
     
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    hahaha.. resist the urge, go jerk one out or call someone else up
     
  3. Rose

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    Some people thrive on fiery relationships. It's an incredible turn-on to be fighting like cats and dogs one minute, and then releasing that rage through sexual energy the next minute. A little quirky to me, but as we say on :sf, "to each his/her own"!

    As long as you are okay with calling her up when you want it. She is obviously willing to use the opportunity to try to 'get you back', as you say.

    I imagine that in time, you will tire of it, and will be able to move on into a more stable, loving relationship where the sex will be phenominal - without the drama. All part of growing up perhaps. :shrug
     
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    One question: Why stop? It will burn itself out eventually. Why not just enjoy each other right now? Life is so short. I say fuck hard, fight hard, and enjoy the pain and pleasure of it all. :dgrin
     
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    Just enjoy it. DO your thing and then kick her ass out. Keep it till you find yourself a girl you actually want to be with.
     
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    :rofl I suppose my response was an attempt to be somewhat 'eloquent'.... but
    [banana]YEAH!! WHAT GREYGOOSE SAID![/banana]
     
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    i kinda got caught in one of these situations before. it'll grow old after awhile, so you don't really need to worry about fighting it. it's an experience that you'll grow from, just like anything else.

    and i'd never pass up sex with a dark-skinned woman if i was single.
     
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    Your lights are on, but you're not home
    Your mind is not your own
    Your heart sweats, your body shakes
    Another kiss is what it takes
    You can't sleep, you can't eat
    There's no doubt, you're in deep
    Your throat is tight, you can't breathe
    Another kiss is all you need

    Whoa, you like to think that you're immune to the stuff, oh yeah
    It's closer to the truth to say you can't get enough
    You know you're gonna have to face it, you're addicted to love...

    Well, fucking, at any rate :D You may just have to go cold turkey. Block her number, divert your attention to something else whenever you think of her...Join a 12 step program :lol
     
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    Have you tried calling someone other then your ex-gf?
     
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    It is probably like any other addiction...

    It needs to be healed.....?
     
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    My wife and I rarely argue, but the best sex we EVER had was straight after one of our rare fights, by God it was hot! I sometimes want to pick a fight with her so we can do it again!

    Truly I understand what this is about, but I am not going to offer advice.
     
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    One of the reasons I find my marriage
    challenging at times is because my
    partner will not argue, so therefore
    the marriage lacks passion........

    I so understand the need for a a fiery
    love partner...passive behaviour does
    little for my love life....I am a fiery
    and passionate woman who needs a
    lot of fiery and passionate love :)

    ....but I would be worried that the pulling
    and pushing the author writes about in this
    thread may become unhealthy......maybe it could
    become an obsssion which in the long run
    may not serve to help either.
     
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    Just do NOT cave in and date her again.
     
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    Man I feel you on this one. I end up sleeping with my ex all the damn time, though after a little more than a year, its finally dying down. At first my friends would always tell me that all I needed was to get a lady friend or two that would always be down. Found them, the issue is that they aren't always down because of the whole, "shit we go to a hard college thing and have to study like crazy." Its also because after 3.5 years of being with one person she knows what I like better than anyone else. I love variety, but that woman still just gets me going. Its also just too easy, no dealing rejection or pseudo rejection even at 5 in the morning because she wants me back she'll come whenever. I feel like an asshole even saying that because my ex is a good person, but sometimes weakness gets the best of me.

    All I can say is give it time, and try and find some one or some one's who will do the same stuff.