[Ask a Guy] soft or hard…

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  1. CurvedUp

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    before the pants come off.

    I don’t think one woman I have been with has ever seen me soft before they have seen me hard. They have either felt me are seen the erection.

    I am not a shower most of the time.
     
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    I can never relate to porn clips where the guys pants come off and he is soft. The mere suggestion of sex has always gotten a rise in me.
     
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    Thank you!!
     
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    Depends, in new relationships the woman hardly ever sees me in the flaccid state but after a while especially with highly demanding ones the do and then it is up to them to hand crank the motor to get it started.
     
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    Both? Teehee.
     
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    Doesn't matter to me what she sees. I'm a grower, not a shower but I don't think it'll matter too much when I'm balls deep inside her.
     
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    I love watching them grow but it's something I don't see very often. :(
     
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    Depends what you mean by soft - fully flaccid, or half hard?
    No new partner has ever seen me anything but fully erect initially and only truly half hard after a couple of 'goes' because, without bragging, when lustful I don't usually fully lose it after my first cum and even after a second it takes quite a time to 'go down', after being 'well stretched'.
    Have to admit I'm pleased about this because I am an uncut 'grower' and completely flaccid have a large amount of foreskin, which I think looks b ugly and which I wouldn't want any woman to see (in a sexual context) before they'd seen me fully erect because then it automatically retracts and disappears, so much I have been thought to be circumcised.
    As an aside - a few American partners have been 'shocked' to find out that they've unknowingly been with an uncut man - their first.
    Have to say that all my partners when they have (eventually) seen me fully flaccid have been fascinated - as Dragon_Fire seems to be - and 'excited' to see the change as I erect.
     
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    You have to take a gander in the middle of a sex session just after he's come for like the third time. He'll go into a refractory period and go soft. My wife used to like to play around with my limp dick and feel it grow as the blood returned. She would suck on my soft dick till it filled her mouth. It often gave us the giggles. But sure enough I would be hard again and ready for more. I loved those marathon sex sessions. :D
     
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    Oh, I get to see it dozing after an orgasm but the original question mentioned starting soft while pants are still on.
     
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    Wish i was that lucky lol
     
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    Fair enough. I go back to "if she reaches to unsnap my jeans, I will be hard before they are off". Maybe some day I will need viagra but not yet.
     
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    That reminds me of a conversation my wife and I had when I said something about trying Viagra, she said "no, if i wanted to fuck all night I'd get me a black man"
     
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    thanks kermit.....i needed a :lol
     
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    kissing usually works well enough :lol