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  1. Shadowagent

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    For 9 months me and /for safety reasons name will not be said/ It was long distance not once did I cheat so I moved to the UK one month passed she ended it 2 months from our wedding now for current here I am pounding 2000 dollar wedding ring with a hammer say I still love her so damn much
     
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    She just ended it without a reason?
     
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    sweet home...
    alright stop

    hammer time!

    wait....why are you going to smash the ring when you can just take it back and get your money or sell it
     
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    I can do that?
     
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    ^That's what I was just thinking as well. Did you ever ask her what her reason was? Or talked to her about it for that matter?
     
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    This. A thousand times, this.
     
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    She didn't give me a chance
     
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    She literally left her cellphone at her house and left me there
     
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    Well when you moved was it to be closer or were you farther apart? Just trying to get more info so as to give the best possible advice.

    Edit: just reread your first post.

    Did you two have a fight or something?
     
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    ok this woman sounds like a complete bitch. don't waste your time being sad over her, be glad she's gone. she did you a favor
     
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    So you were engaged for 9 months and all of a sudden she just calls it quits with no explanation whatsoever????
    And she said absolutely nothing when she gave you back the ring??
    Sorry man....but I feel there's more to this than your letting on...:uhh:


    I'd have much rather got my money back.....destroying a $2000 ring is just cutting your nose to spite your face:tsktsk
     
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    It's beginning to sound to me like it was a very brief long distance "romance" to which he moved out and proposed, and she wasn't at all ready for that and bolted. But until Shadow gives us a hell of a lot more detail, it's going to be very hard to know for sure.
     
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    Harder to explain then that ok first she is all happy and all I move closer to her relationship is sexual for a week she tells me her ex raped her drugged her beat her I say I feel sorry then went to a hotel for the one then and she wasn't at all ready for that and bolted
     
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    sweet home...
    ummmm what
     
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    Ok in the simplest way I can put it she lie I say I feel sorry for her on that I run to hotel she leaves me...
     
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    she lied about what happened to her?
     
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    In my experience people don't lie about being raped or beaten unless they want people to feel sorry for them(which is rare to lie about that type of stuff) or are vindictive. Just because her ex said it didn't happen (almost all rapist and abusers lie about what happened) doesn't mean that she's lying. More than likely he is the one that is lying. Did you even know her ex before she said that?
     
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    No I did not
     
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    Well see. Why don't you talk to her about it. I highly doubt she is lying.