When you're seeing a guy, what are your thoughts on kissing? My dilemma is simply this. Been dating a girl for a week, kissed her five seconds after I asked her out. However our kisses, so far, are just basic kisses. I've tried once or twice to coax a little tongue out of her, and one time I caught a teeny tiny tid bit of it, but that's it, and I don't want to shove my tongue in her throat or make her feel uncomfortable. It's not like she's that uptight of a girl either. Her and I have both had 1 serious past relationship, so it's not like this is "omgnewthingahhhhwhattodo" type of thing... But anyway, what are your thoughts on it? Do you ladies tend to just open wide and play some tonsil hockey or are some of you other ladies kind of... ehh, yeah, take it a little slow then lead into it later, etc?