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    my new girlfriend says when she wants to have sex she wants "Ya know kinky shit" well never tried kinky sex how does that work
     
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    Good to see you're past the heart break.
    You should ask HER what she considers "kinky shit". Everyone has a different view of what Kinky may or may not be.
     
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    She said anything kinky so that gives me no clue
     
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    Try asking her what " she" considers " kinky" ?:shrug
     
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    kinky might be "going down" on her .. slapping ass... or putting it in her ass...

    or she may be in to being tied up .. blind folded...

    Who knows .. might pay to ask but then again you don't wan to come off "Inexperienced" some woman don't like it lol
     
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    As a beginner in a new relationship, the first thing that comes to my mind is a blindfold and loose handties. MMMMMMMMMMMM sounds good right about now ;)
     
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    Get a half dozen sex toys, porn, 5gal bucket of veggie oil and a large roll of plastic, handcuffs and rope, fruit and whipped cream and chocolate sauce, look at her with a straight face and say, name your poison.
     
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    I dont fucking think so
     
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    OMG!! I would say hell yeah!! :D:lol Except to the veggie oil and large roll of plastic. :eek
     
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    Which part of it?
     
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    Probably the whipped cream. Must be lactose intolerant.
     
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    Yep, swap the veggie oil for baby oil and I'm in!
     
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    This ... at least you come off as "experienced" when she picks it will be all up to you how to use the stuff
     
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    how about dripping some hot candle wax on each other? Some light biting,tying each other up,spanking,master and servant play
     
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    Experiment a bit, try different things, do the things you know you enjoy, ask her what she enjoys. She may not be sure what kinky is yet (?) and wants to expand her horizons a bit.
    Try role plays, titty fuck, 69, tie her up, toys on her, imagination and communication to work out the rest.
     
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    No not hot candle wax might hurt her and get her pissed off at me :eek
     
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    Ask her what her fantasies are; what she thinks about when she masturbates.

    It may be easier for her to explain what she likes if she doesn't feel she is telling you what to do. That can spoil it for some women. It loses something if we have to direct and map out exactly what we like but of course there is no reason why a guy should magically understand what we want. If she shares her sexual fantasies with you, as though she were telling you a story or the plot of a movie, she'll be telling you what she likes without actually saying, "Please do this next time we have sex."

    Hope this helps. It worked for me!
     
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    So is sex with her going to be the same as the ex or will it be like 7 minutes and I'm done unlike with ex wich was 30ish minutes. Only had sex with ex just an FYI
     
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    Well, the plastic is to protect the carpet and stuff, not disposal of a body LOL

    There are plenty of non dairy whipped cream...and you can suck the gas out of the can for a little extra fun.
    Can do, I don't recommend motor oil. By the way, how many babies does it take to fill a bottle?
    I don't even consider any of these really kinky, just spices things up.

    I knew I forgot something...and we have a couple of dozen candles in the bedroom. I didn't mention ball gags, whips, chains, paddles, hockey sticks....

    Amazing what you can come up with after 31yrs of sex. I thought what I mentioned was pretty mainstream and hardly considered really kinky.
     
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