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  1. Ready2Please

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    I went to check on my email and noticed that someone wanted to befriend me on the website called FetLife. For some odd reason the name seemed familiar but I wasn't sure until I confirmed it by going to. The website to read his message to me and I knew the guy from the company that does patrol around where I work.

    I don't have any pictures of my face but body parts. So my question is should I tell him who I am or not. I'm thinking I should because I won't want it to be kept from me.

    Thanks for the help.
     
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    I wouldn't tell
     
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    Seeing as I'm a friend on your fetlife I know the pictures you share there. If you want him to know who you are, then by all means, do so. But it's a fetish site, he's most likely only wanting to befriend you for sexual reasons. Is that the type of relationship you want with someone you know/work with?
     
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    Well considering we've already had sex with each other on several occasions. He doesn't know that I have some what of a wild lifestyle. Of all the people who send me a message on that site it would have to be him! LOL WTF...
     
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    Haha, well if you're already had sex, go for it. Obviously you're more alike then originally thought!lol
     
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    Sounds exciting!!! I would tell him :)
     
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    I don't want a relationship with him but more of a sex thing. So I will tell him but I'm going to message him to find out what he is interested in and then I will tell him.
     
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    Ya I don't think a guy will turn down the opportunity to have a fuck buddy nearby lol
     
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    Pina colada anyone?
    R2P that is one exciting game....no, don't tell him lead him on and build it up in anticipation of the revelation...............ultimate moment!
     
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    I won't tell him until I am ready. I sent him a message today and will see what happens next. It will be a little weird to run into him during work hours though. :lol:
     
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    Nah, running into him in daily life (with only you knowing the hook) could only make more glorifying for you.
    Under those circumstances treat hi coolly, let him think you an uninterested bitch.
     
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    Wouldn't tell.
     
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    So when should I tell him who I am. :lol:D:phat
     
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    I would say no in my opinion as the situation could get a bit sticky :)
     
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    Ask him what he is up to after hours with a little smile that says you probably know something and keep him in the suspense.
    How about you tell him in person, not online? Brave enough to try?
     
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    On that note this was done to me once. I would go for pick ups once she told me where she works and I was guessing for days.
    Then we finally met and I saw who she was. Torture to keep guessing.
    She would give me little hints just to keep me guessing, never enough to be clear, always vague.
     
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    I'm going to have to figure something out. Because he already knows where I live. :lol