Not in bed, in a relationship, or anything long-term for that matter. I'm just not aggressive enough while approaching girls. I don't know why really. I know it is a real problem because I can't meet the right woman because I end up dating aggressive women. Not that I have a problem with aggressive women, I just need to be dominant, they usually don't let me. What do you guys think? Should I just sack-up and go talk to the girls instead of trying not to compete?