So how long should it take ? :/

Discussion in 'General Sex Discussion' started by tammyt, Jan 31, 2010.

  1. tammyt

    tammyt New Member

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    I was wondering how long it usually takes from start to finish for people? and how much of that is foreplay and then how much is penetration? and what percentage of the times do you snuggle? i know thats more than one but they are simple enough
     
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    There is no set time,it all depends on what kind of mood we are in as to how long it takes from start to finish.
     
  3. igor

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    For us lately it seems to be about an hour total. Hard to tell really when snuggling stops and serious foreplay starts. probably 5 to 10 minutes of actual intercourse, then more snuggling.
     
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    Like 2-3 hours, but as igor said, it's hard to know where snuggling stops and foreplay begins.
     
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    There have been studies on this. I read for married couples from the time the guy sticks it in is 9 minutes! Frankly though this seems short to me.
     
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    Ive read closer to 4 mins for the majority or "in the rut" couples......
     
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    I have no idea. I'm too busy enjoying myself to be clock watching.
     
  8. heelfetish

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    It ranges far too much to give an accurate answer. Anywhere from 2 minutes all the way up to several hours.
     
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    i can get my girl off really quick.. it all depends on the mood if shes really into it that stuff happens quick... if the phone rings in the middle of it... yeah its not gonig to happen for a while.
     
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    Well, everyone is different but we usually take thirty minutes in total: 5-10 minutes for "foreplay," between 2 and 5 minutes of actual penetration, and about 10 minutes of post-coital cuddling.
     
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    somewhere between 2 pumps and 2 hours ;)
     
  12. HardRocker

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    That's the best answer yet.
     
  13. heelfetish

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    I agree! :lol
     
  14. HardRocker

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    Mystery solved thanks to Pakua.
    Didja get that tammyt?
    We should just close the thread.:eyes
     
  15. honeynuthornyos

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    quoted for truth. this is exactly why i always make sure to warm her up with foreplay.
     
  16. honeynuthornyos

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    the first time i have sex with any woman i always learn what gets her going the most and try to apply that later on in subsequent sessions. that being said other than technique orgasms especially for women are mental for the most part. if you arent in th mood you arent gonig to cum.

    edit: at least from what i know anyway