so frustrated...

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  1. Acrisiss

    Acrisiss New Member

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    I've been trying for the longest time to cum on my own... I mean, i want to, right? but no matter what I do, I can't seem to hit the high note. I get really horny and tight and I feel like im going to burst and pee all at once. Then I squirt (took me a while to realize this wasnt pee) and then... nothing. Everyone says that you'll know when it happens, but im really frustrated because after i squirt, i really cant stay horny anymore. I'm convinced that i havent really felt anything, and my bf's worried something might be wrong. Am I doing something wrong, or is there anything i can do to fix this?
     
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    evman New Member

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    I am not that familiar with squirting as I have never had a partner that did it but I have always been under the assumption that squirting was a part of the orgasm. I could be wrong. Do you feel anything while squirting?
     
  3. Barbwire

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    Need more info, please.

    What are you doing to get yourself off, exactly? Have you tried stimulating just your clit? I find that g-spot orgasms are too mild to be bothered with. If I really wanna hit the roof I have an old-fashioned clitoral screamer.
     
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    Totally agree clitoral orgasms are the best!!!! And if you are worring in making your self orgasm maybe that's why you have been unable
     
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    I would hate to have that, but I'm a guy so that would probably be bad. Hope you get to have it.
     
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    maybe you just need to relax, stress might be the problem
    but then i'm a guy so what do i know :)