Snoopy

Discussion in 'Sex and Relationships' started by HotForHoney, Jul 2, 2014.

  1. HotForHoney

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    I haven't heard from him in 3 weeks. I thought it over, thought I was over him. Why'd he come back? Why'd I answer his email? What is this hold he has over me?
     
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    Why am I good enough to fuck but not love?
     
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    It's not you that's not good enough. He's not good enough for you. Having a great lover is cool, but having someone in mutual love is far greater. I hate to say this, but I don't ever see this one being two sided.

    xx
     
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    Wise words from Cappy!
     
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    Neither do I :-(

    I still can't let go.
     
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    let go
     
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    If it was that easy!!!
     
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    H4H - Please be strong, you are too good to be just 'good to fuck'.
    You are being double fucked, with your body and your mind.
    You are my dear friend being used; used and discarded, until he 'feels in the mood'/has 'the need' again'.
    You are to put it very bluntly 'a toy' and you know how much your toys mean to you when they've served their purpose.
    You don't honestly think you are gaining anything do you, because you are not, you are just having something taken away - and you already know what that is.
    For the sake of your inner self-respect - say NO!
    I 'luvs ya', like we all do, that's why I've said that.
     
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    I'll keep it short, your better than he is!
     
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    You are both right. I hope I am strong enough to say no.
     
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    I don't really know you, HotForHoney, but you seem like a strong woman who is too good to be used by a man like that. Stay strong, and good luck :)
     
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    You are strong enough
     
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    I don't know you either but I do understand what you're going through, you're hoping for more but you're setting yourself up to be used. If you can't separate your feelings from your urges, you need to find the strength to cut him out of your life. If YOU can fuck him without loving him, then do it, but if you can't ....... you know the rest.

    Chin up Honey :)
     
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    HFH, two can play the same game!
    You need a good fuck and he can deliver them use him for that them tell him to POQ until you feel like having it again but meanwhile keep on your radar to detect a more permanent replacement.
    I will be rooting for you; Aussie style ;)
     
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    HFH, sorry to hear about this but could not understand fully. Maybe I missed some other thread. He disappeared for 3 weeks and then showed up?? What was his excuse.
    You are strong enough all right but I think you have some feelings about him and maybe things could be sorted out before parting ways
     
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    HFH. Look at it like this. It's his loss. Move on The right one has to be out there somewhere.
     
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    I think I just need to keep this in mind:
     

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    That's good but depressive.. Did you write those or found them suited for you? I can give you many reasons to be pesimistic and just one reason to be optimistic, and you - everybody would choose the optimistic.

    I won't say anymore, you know you can find me if you want
     
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    Snoopy text me yesterday (about a news story), I didn't answer.
     
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    Sorry new here and stayed out of this as I don't know anything about it but reading comments it seems to have taken a lot for you not to answer and that's really well done for you, no one should have a hold over you like that,
    Keep strong and think of yourself first