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  1. Jayce

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    My girlfriend goes to college tomorrow. Round 2 of 4. *sigh*

    I hope this year is a good one. We went through some really bad times last year, but also had our good times. She leaves tomorrow around 9 AM. Despite the fact she's only an hour away, it still hurts. I probably won't be seeing her anymore often than once every 2 weeks... and that's if I'm lucky. I doubt I'll be able to talk to her on the phone more than twice every 3 days... so not exactly EVERY SINGLE day, but relatively often I guess.

    I gotta respect her wishes though. This year she wants some more emotional space, she wants room to be able to go to the practice rooms and practice piano for 6 hours without thinking "omg I gotta call Jayce or he'll get mad." But whatever, I guess I'm in the same boat, being that I'm in a different school this year that's getting me somewhere in life.

    I just hope that her wanting extra space isn't going to end up pushing her farther away from me. I doubt that would happen, especially considering the time we have under our belt (nearly 5 years and I'm 20, she's 19). But still... I'll do what it takes.

    Round 2! BING! :(
     
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    Cheer up, Jayce. Be patient. Go sit with your beer and your fan!
     
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    Meh. :( I hope May 7th gets here soon.
     
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    It will. Sooner than we all think. You're in school too, aren't you? Get your nose in them books too, and we'll all get there faster. :)
     
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    I know, I know. Yeah I'm in school. Not too much going on now... since I've built computers for the past 3 years, and that's what we're learning now, it's relatively easy... so opening those books isn't necessary right now.

    But oh well. It just sucks sitting here knowing... okay, THIS is the beginning. It felt the same way with school, walking in for the second day like... WOW this is going to be long... only one day down so far. But I've already been in school for over a month. Plus, her schedule is so busy already for the beginning of the year that we determined I won't be seeing her at all this month. She said she'll do her best to find a little hole somewhere once she gets settled in with classes... but meh.

    Oh well. May 7th better get here quick. And May 26th better get here even sooner (21). :brow
     
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    Sweets.... she said she's gonna try to make the time. Ya gotta hold onto that, and take it one day at a time. It feels like forever for all of us. We're all waiting on something.

    This could turn really philosophical, and you don't seem in the mood so I'll leave it at that.
     
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    Yeah I know. I'm not giving her ANY grief at all, which is why I guess I come here just to babble about it so I spare her feeling guilty.

    I think I'm just going to go rub one out in a steamy shower then sleep neykid.


    weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
    ner.


    rawr.
     
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    "Rub one out." Giggles. Yer cute.
     
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    Man a good ole 'O always makes me feel good.
     
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    Dude, a good 'O makes us ALLLLLLL feel good.
     
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    In fact, I'm feeling so antsy right now I think I'll go for another. This will be difficult... being alone, just watching some ridiculous porn, 30 minutes after having the first one, it's going to be hard to get a stiffy for the second. It's tough being male. :( :lol
     
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    Oh whatever. Tell me Jayce. Do you miss her company? Her conversation? The sex? What?
     
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    Everything. Her personality is extremely spontaneous. It's just so fun to be around her, she's just a nut.

    The conversations we have I definitely miss too. That's what's great about her, we can be joking around and doing the stupidest shit then the next minute be down talking to one another.

    The sex, yeah of course I miss that. But I don't sit here thinking "Damn I just wanna crank her real good." I find that when she's home and I KNOW I'm going to see her the next day, then I think about cranking her much much more often. But when I'm away from her, all I care about is seeing her and being able to go out to lunch.
     
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    Well, you can love her, Jayce, where she is. Support her in making her dreams come true, and in growing into the adult she is becoming. THIS experience is shaping the woman that you say you want to live your life with. The most admirable and loving thing that you can do is make sure that she knows that you miss the real and human parts of her, and appreciate the sexual parts of her when she's around. I know you can do it. So does she......
     
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    I know. I'm not doubting anything about us making it. It just sucks because THIS is the first day she's gone, so right now I can't get any farther away from May 7th as I am right now.

    But I'm very proud of her. She's becoming independent, pinching pennies and paying for things on her own. She refuses to let me pay the entire phone bill (we have a family plan together) and things like that. I'm proud of that. I'm glad she's willing to do that instead of just becoming a leech... then again, that's how her sister is, and she doesn't want to be like her sister.

    But oh well. I just hope she makes good choices, surrounds herself with good people, and cuts back a little bit more on drinking from last year - all of which I'm sure she'll do and/or already has done.
     
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    Trust her. She will prove you right, and herself worthy. But that means really trusting. No doubt. K?

    I'm 31....and haven't earned that yet. Do it for her. That's the love a lady wants (in my opinion). Just trust her. Enjoy this time, Jayce. It's helping shape the woman that you want to live your life with, the woman that you want to mother your children....the woman you want to grow old with. This is such an important time. Your unwavering support will mean the world to her, and the success of it all.
     
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    Yeah. Last year she was introduced to a whole new world where alcohol could be obtained rather easily, then I started to worry. Last year was a little rocky, but I think it was both of our faults. Me, pushing to get her to cut back, her, saying she was just living life. Then I think she got over that novelty and was like, meh, whatever.

    But yeah, I absolutely trust her. I wonder what she's doing tonight. She said she'd call me but never did... but I know she was dead tired. That poor girl has probably been asleep for hours.

    And now it's my turn. Fare thee well.
     
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    And fare thee well to you as well. :) Mmmmwa.
     
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    It's things that are said like today that I wonder how her and I will make it work. She knows I don't like her drinking heavily. I'm all about having a good time and getting a little buzz going on, but there's definitely a fine line.

    Granted, she told me it was over the course of the night... Which, since she went to bed at 2 am, and I left there around 5 pm, it could of been 5 pm until 2 am that the "night" took place. But she told me she ended up hanging out with some friends and had 6 beers.

    I assume, going with my gut instinct, she had 6 within a 2-2.5 hour period. This is when I start to doubt if it'll work out. Meh. I just have that damn feeling.
     
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    Meh. I guess I'm acting stupid. I've never drank much beer, I've always been a mixed drink fan where you can "control" them more as to how strong the drink is. Since I've never drank that much beer (as in, I never drank JUST beer and gotten drunk, I've always drank something else) 6 kind of startled me. But I talked to my buddy and he said his girlfriend drank 6 in an hour the other day and she was at most a little woozy.

    Oh well. That made me feel a little better. She even told me after I was like, wtf, six? that she had it over the course of the night and felt fine. Oh well. To bed we go. Just figured I'd follow up.

    I'm gonna go sleep neykid now.