[Ask a Girl] Small Penis Problem

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  1. policescanner1

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    I have suffered my entire life with a small Penis only 4 inches hard.:ugh
    I'm so very insecure about it as I have been laughed out of several beds and 3 cars by women who say size is all that matters. I know there has to be some women who don't mind a small penis out there some where. I try to not to be so sensitive about it and always put the Woman first in my relationships being as tender and kind as I know how. Making sure her wants and needs are meet before my own. Things seems to go OK at times until it comes out and then things go south. How can I get passed this insecurity and find a women who will not laugh me out of the bed room ? Thanks for any and all positive comments.
     
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    Well I look at your profile and see you are listed as married.....so apparently she wasn't laughing at you...
     
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    Um...go home?
     
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    I'm sure some of the guys will agree that having a big penis, while socially, stigmatically and stereotypically important, and generally understood as the "icon" of being a man, it can also be just as inconvenient and inhibiting in the bedroom. Some women find that a large penis can hurt or at least be uncomfortable during intercourse. We've all been conditioned and brainwashed by watching porn and listening to others brag about their ten incher (that is really only two inches) that unless you're hung like a horse and can erect yourself into a tower you don't have what it takes. A small penis can be a confidence killer unless you have accepted who you are. You may not be able to massage her cervix but you can still make her see red in bed.:D
     
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    Thanks for the kind words
     
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    Is there a reason you aren't acknowledging what the girls are saying to you?
     
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    If you're just out to fuck and play with what you've got a small penis may make it difficult if you don't know how to use it. Check out the "net" I'm sure there are plenty of sites for instruction, or talk to someone you trust, male of female and get some technique advice. I'm talking a face to face discussion not a back and forth text.
    If you are in a serious relationship with someone who cares about you size isn't that important and you can still make her gasp for breath in the clouds.
     
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    It's not easy to admit when your wife has left you. No I haven't changed my profile as I am still legealy married. A million thoughts run through you head when you are left by some one you have been devoted to for so long. Going home is not the option as I am home , my home.
     
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    Don't worry. My story follows.

    Many years ago-before I was married, I was dating this gal and one night in my apartment we were making out and both were really hot when she said"Let's go in your bedroom." Of course that was fine with me. We started undressing each other. My dick was rock hard, but when she saw my hard 4 inch dick she said " Is that all you have?" I said "That is all." We proceeded to fuck and she had two orgasms and I had one. Then she said "Those are the first orgasms I ever had. Your dick is great. I love fucking you." We continued to date and fuck for several months until she moved away.

    By the way she was only one of 10 different gals that I fucked before I married and only that one commented about my 4 inch dick.

    So your 4 inch dick is just fine. My wife of many years loves it-multiple orgasms every time we fuck. My wife says a shorter dick is best for doing deep throat. She had fucked several guys before we married-a couple had big dicks which she didn't like as well as my dick. she says.

    Just keep on fucking and all will enjoy.

    PM me for more details.
     
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    Thanks for the encouragement I'll PM you
     
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    I have the same problem. My penis is so small I don't even bother associating with the opposite sex. Theres really nothing we can do about it.
     
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    I have said it many times that one of the best lovers I have/had is very average. Hes on here think his picture may still be posted lol GB1. I have had guys who were big and small its all about how you use it. Unless the girl is hung up on just the looks of it its no big deal. I do admit that I personally love the way a big cock looks on a man. Its just pleasing to the eye to see. But I know that its not the size that matters in the bed but at the beach i love to see a nice package.
     
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    Thanks for replying and being honest
     
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    no problem
     
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    Sorry to hear about your separation. I went through a divorce about 25 yrs ago and it turned my world upside down. I understand how things go through your head, all the questions, the hopes and fears the second guessing and the sleepless nights. i got to know two prostitutes by name, real name.
    I've been with my GF 10 years and she is the best. I met her through on line personals. maybe you want to try something like that. as far as a small penis goes there's probably more with a small or average size than a larger one so don't feel you are alone. be yourself.
     
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    I take solace in hearing that there are more of us men with the same feature. I guess seeing all the well endowed men on here along with hearing some women's preference for a larger penis just make me feel inadequate due to size. Thanks for the feed back and kind words as I go through this turmoil in my life.