I have suffered my entire life with a small Penis only 4 inches hard.:ugh I'm so very insecure about it as I have been laughed out of several beds and 3 cars by women who say size is all that matters. I know there has to be some women who don't mind a small penis out there some where. I try to not to be so sensitive about it and always put the Woman first in my relationships being as tender and kind as I know how. Making sure her wants and needs are meet before my own. Things seems to go OK at times until it comes out and then things go south. How can I get passed this insecurity and find a women who will not laugh me out of the bed room ? Thanks for any and all positive comments.