Smack That Ass!

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  1. Thorn

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    How many girls love for their lover to smack their ass during sex? Why?

    How many guys love to smack their lover's ass during sex. Why?
     
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    I like it in a playful fun way, not in a painful get mean kind of a way. Why do I like it.. well if we're really going at it and he does it just a couple of times, makes me feel real naughty & sexy. :)
     
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    Thorny, I think you over looked one more version of the old smack down.

    Do guys like Getting spanked:D

    I dooooo! Every time, it's a turn on and get me to twitch in estatic pleasure.
     
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    My wife doesnt find that any fun at all...so I never smack her behind. Weve never really spoken at length about why she doesnt like it, I just know that it wont do a damn thing for her arousal. Just not her bag and thats all-right with me. We have plenty of other arousal techniques for one another.
     
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    My wife when we are going at hard an fast (doggie style ) will sometimes ask me to spank her ass, I can ually tell just how horny she is by how hard she wants her ass spanked.
     
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    Nope, don't like it. I'll give you a warning the first time you try it, but the second time I won't be so nice about it.

    It's not pleasurable at all to me.
     
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    I don't like to get spanked nor do I like to spank. Pain has never been a turn-on for me. If a lover ever indicated a desire to be spanked I quickly lost interest. I can't see the difference between a smack on the ass or a smack to the face.
     
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    I love being spanked! The harder the better! And not just in the bedroom...My man slaps my ass everywhere, I love it. I don't know why but I do!
     
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    Same here Mystic! Rose loves it too! I'll sometimes come up behind her while she's working around the house and smack it and if we're feeling frisky while out shopping or in a bar I'll give it a little smack. :p
     
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    depends on my mood.... spankin has no place in lovemaking... but there are other times where it just turns my crank
     
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    I think it is very sexy. True - when we are in a very romantic, loving sexual encounter - ass smacking is not part of it. But in a playful, high-energy sex-play time - I love those little love smacks! I giggle ... he giggles... then we go at it. It's one of those times when we don't use words to express our feelings... just a look or a glance or a squeal. Loads of fun - that's all I have to say about it.:brow
     
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    Again I have agree with rose. So smart that Rose is. All part of sex play. I think sex should be fun.:D
     
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    I hate it except for a few instances. I don't mind it during some kind of bondage or domination sex, thats just part of the fantasy.
     
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    When you think about it the smacking of the ass by the male during foreplay and sex is kind of a fantasy thing in itself. For the guy it's sort oh an animalistic conquering thing. "I caught my prey and I'm now in control." For me, like a lot of sex ideas, it comes from internet porn. Kind of a "Monkey see, monkey do" thing, :lol but definitely a fantasy-like action. :ugh

    Hell, I wear the pants in this household, but when I "smack that ass" it's the only time I'm really in control. :D :ugh
     
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    ass spanking is very arousing, but not all women are fond of it, better ask first to be safe.;)
     
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    Lite play spanking is fun, both receiving and giving. My ex and I enjoyed lite B&D when the mood struck. I could tell how hot she was getting by how warm she wanted her butt.
     
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    me and my partner love ass spanking, and yes again i agree iwth rose it has no place with gentle love making, but in quick heated passionate sex rough sex and playfull sex spanking is a must for me oo and i do return teh favor as he likes having his ass spankedtoo, even when out just playfull little smacks are cute and get him alittlehotter ;) x
     
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