Slicked up and throbbing with no place to go.

Discussion in 'Sexual Fetishes and Fantasies' started by Barbwire, Jun 14, 2012.

  1. Barbwire

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    Just got off the phone with my virtual lover of 5 years and I'm slick & throbbing and have no flesh and blood cock on hand. I hate it when he gets me ready to fuck then says he has to go. The big fucking tease! :mad

    What got me so amped up was our conversation about when we meet face to face for the first time. For the first time since I've known him, I will be within an hour's drive of his place in a few weeks and I have my husband's permission to meet him.

    Permission has not been granted for me to fuck my lover but, I didn't ask for it, either. Not sure if I should or not but I have a feeling hubby would be fine with it.

    (For the record, my husband knows all about my lover and what we do and instead of being jealous, he actually enjoys my virtual sexcapades.)

    So yeah, my virtual b/f and I have the chance to fuck and I will only do so if I have hubby's go ahead but, it's something that has been led up to for 5 years and it makes me crazy horny just to think about it.

    So, here I sit, horny as fuck and my hubby won't be home til late.

     
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  3. Barbwire

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    Yes I have both but I want to save my sexual appetite for when my husband gets home so I can fuck him and then, after he's shot his wad ask him for permission to fuck the b/f.

    I'm most apt to get the go ahead if I ask then. I'm smart like that, ya know.
     
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    The greatest high possible :)
    Hope reality does not dissapoint though.
     
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    If there is sex, it may very well disappoint but I think my greatest joy will be able to just give him a big ol' hug and smell his scent so that I may commit it to memory. So, unless he has bad body odour, I don't think I could be disappointed in him at least in one small way.
     
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    Ah, yes a person's smell that is dear to us is something to cherish.
    My SO is an animal like that; burys her olfactories in my armpits and inhales deeply particularly after sex. She also loves my nasally exhaled breath and I adore the subtle fragarence of of boobies on her hanging bras :)
     
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    Better yet ask him right BEFORE he shoots his wad. We'll agree to anything at that point.
     
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    IDK Barb, but if I spent 5 years getting revved up by someone like you have, and you doing the same for him, and I was finally able to meet, nothing would matter, and they would have to pry us apart with the jaws of life.

    Good luck, and enjoy, and I hope hubby says its' OK because I think you will want to, and probably will do it anyway. How could you not?
     
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    12barblues - stop giving away the secrets of the brotherhood ;)
     
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    Well, I asked him last night right after he'd shot his wad. I didn't get a definite yes or no but, we discussed it and I told him I wanted him to think about it before answering.

    One thing he said that kinda threw me was, "What do I get out of it?"

    I thought about it and said, "Nothing, it's not about what you get, it's about what I get."

    Am I wrong to think that he's a touch selfish?

    I also brought up the fact that he offered to fly me to meet my lover last winter when I was having huge issues with depression.

    So, if he was willing to send me to him when I was in deep depression, why isn't he more open to me going to meet him when I'm feeling good?

    *shrugs*

    Oh well, I guess I will just have to wait it out and see.

    pbs: I would NOT do anything sexual if I didn't have permission first. I'm a terrible liar and I'd never be able to pull it off.
     
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    SoOooooo? How did it go? Boy. I wish my wife had avirtual friend to get her all worked up. It has been a while since I walked in the house to find a wet swollen pussy just waiting to be filled. I know my answer would be "yes, whatever you want dear".
     
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    Oh. Missed your last post. Keep in mind. His hesitancy is because he loves you. I would feel very insecure about wifey fucking someone else. Even though he has been open and accepting all these years , he still probably feels uncertain about your intentions. There is a definite benefit to him of the virtual relationship because it keeps you hot and horny for the real thing. You might need to reassure him that this is just another aspect of your sexuality and that you are maintaining that sexuality because it helps you to feel close to him. He may also need a quid pro quo. Any prospects of a compensatory fuck for him with someone?
     
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    I thought about my husband questioning what's in it for him and I am now prepared to answer that question with a question.

    I will simply ask my husband, "Do you remember the 8 year dry spell?"

    When I turned 40, I had my first online b/f. At the time, sex with hubby was rare, unimaginative and not fulfilling. Sure, our sex was great when we dated but, then along came baby, house, and full blown married life.

    I gained a shitload of weight (that I still haven't lost) when I got pregnant and my body was a mess. I didn't feel sexy or wanted and my libido was shot. I was depressed at great deal of the time and the stress level was crushing. I didn't want sex, need sex or think about sex in any way.

    My husband was miserable as well and he bore the weight of a lot of stress. I was always walking on eggshells because I didn't want to piss him off in any way. He tried to initiate sex but, I wasn't turned on by him or anything really, so I didn't have sex.

    This went on for 8 years.

    So, like I said, I got my first virtual b/f when I turned 40 and because of him, my sexuality was been reborn. What also helped a great deal in my rebirth was joining SF 5 years ago. The new me wants to FUCK FUCK FUCK! How can my husband look at the past and say that me being able to fuck my VBF is something he could say no to?

    Booby: I did give my husband permission to hire two escorts in Reno to engage in anal play/sex with him because I knew it was something that he'd love and never forget for the rest of his days. He didn't take me up on my offer even though he was keen on it when we discussed it.





     
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    Ain't no banana that's gonna scratch my itch when I'm in the mood for luvin'.
     
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    Update: After talking about it again last night, hubby has agreed to let me go all the way with the virtual b/f if I wanted to.

    Now, the question is: Do I have the balls to go through with it?

    ???
     
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    Go for it lol you only live once lol :)
     
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    Well two guys have them for your benefit :lol

    Dunno BW, even I would hesitate on that decision.
    You finally got your way with both but does that not extinguish the virtual thrill of the situation?
    Will cyber lover continue once reality consummated and secondly will hubbie regret/resent giving in to you with tacid permission?
     
  20. Barbwire

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    Those are questions that I've asked myself and really won't know the answer to without actually doing the deed.