Sleepy during sex ?!!

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  1. Jonger84

    Jonger84 New Member

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    Has anybody felt asleep during sex ?!! well in my last experience 15 months ago .. I really felt asleep and started to yawn durning the intercourse !! I let her do the physical work for like 10 minuites till I unloaded.

    She was upset and I wasn't happy myself .. Specially for me cuz it was the last memory I have about having sex ... but I am really wondering if this is a common thing ??
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    The only time I ever fell asleep during sex was when wifey and I both agreed to. We did it a few times prekids when we would be out all night drinking and then fucked till the sun came up. It would go like this. I can't believe your hard again. I can't either but you are so hot I can't stop even though I'm exhausted. I know it took you a long time to cum last time what was that the fifth or sixth how do you have any cum left. I don't know you just turn me on so much. You too. I have to feel you inside but I can't get on top I'm too tired. Me too. How about side by side. Ahhhhhh that feels nice. Can we just stay like this and not move. That would be nice. If we fall asleep do you think we'll wake up like this? I don't know let's try. Zzzzzzzzzzzzz. It usually resulted in waking up early afternoon and fucking again.

    That being said. Don't you think that good sex is all about mutual giving. For us sex is best when we are both in the mood to get the other one off. Lying there and letting the other do the work? Sounds awful! Sounds like a recipe for a dissapointed lover. Maybe you weren't turned on and you need to find someone you really care about. Maybe that will keep your blood flowing all night long

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    Not during sex per se, but I used to have an issue staying awake due to sleep apnea. I'd be going down on my girl and no matter what, I'd start to fall asleep after awhile. She'd get mad, I'd be embarrassed and frustrated as hell. Not good. Losing weight took care of the apnea and poor sleep, but I think the issue here may not be the same.
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    My wife would frequently fall asleep during foreplay, especially if she was tired to begin with. About half the time she would wake up after a few minutes and we would finish what we started.
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    Well are you getting enough rest? LOL...
    Take a nap before doing it next time:)

    My husband fell asleep once when we were dating but not during sex.
    I was giving him a blow job and he had been up two days straight with work and school and just passed out.
    I didn't get mad cuz I knew how tired he was...would be annoying if it happened a lot though.
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    I would have a sleep first LOL :lol I have never fell asleep during sex as it is totally impossible unless the sex was boring:ugh
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    A couple of times fell into oblivion whilst licking pussy and woke with my own snoring.
    SO did not mind as my chin on her clit and thighs locked around my head still felt good.
    Each time it was quite brief and we continued our session without issue :)
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    ive never fell asleep, there times were ive had a hard day or worked overtime and felt tired during sex and let her do the work.
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    well I guess I meant a different thing .. I was so active before and after the sex .. just went sleepy through the sex itself ..
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    I think there is a stage before excitement where it feels kinda like a good massage, and ill feel sleepy normally because I'm tired and its 3am! Otherwise, no. If I'm not already tired it won't make me sleepy.
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    fall asleep during sex....never! thats crazy.
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    mmm ... thanks man ... that really helped me a lot !!
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    it happens to people. yeah, it can be a mood killer indeed, bummer.
    well, if you ever do yawn again, just know that its because you're not breatheing properly and your body subconciously makes you inhale a huge amount of air, lol. it sounds weird, but its sort of true :p
    i've been with a girl that was falling asleep, so i just started thrusting faster, can't sleep if your body is shaking, right? hehe
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    Yeah, a couple of times with the same girlfriend while she was giving me head. :zzz We both laughed about it the next day, but god knows what she was really feeling. I'm just thankful I wasn't dating Lorena Bobbitt! :nerv
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    I've feel asleep while my partner was fingering me when I was 19.

    I was about 28 and at the start of a new relationship when my partner and I both feel asleep during sex and continued to fuck. I woke up a couple of times, observed that we had changed positions and drifted back off. This session lasted over 4 hours before I decided to push him off. :eek

    I've falling asleep during masturbation countless times. :p
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    I have never fallen asleep during sex....
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    I wouldn't mind falling asleep with you.
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    In addition to the couple of times when I was receiving head, I nearly fell asleep recently when my girlfriend was on top of me. She loves breastplay, and by being on top, she could control which parts of her breasts made their ways into my mouth. But that went on for quite a long time and, at some point, I entered a semi-dreamlike state. It only ended when I blurted out some totally incoherent statement, which startled her, which in turn startled me into full wakefulness, at which time I tried to distract her attention by saying something else... I don't think I was very convincing, though.

    Thinking about it now, this problem has only happened to me when I've been on my back. I suggest avoiding being in that position for too long, especially when you are already a bit sleep-deprived.
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    I agree with EscortBunny69, me also have never fell asleep during sex as it is totally impossible unless the sex was boring.
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    i also have never fallen asleep during sex.