I'm the type of girl that loves to be controlled in the bedroom. I enjoy a great spanking, having my head forced on his hard member,held down, choked ect. Last month me& my main fuckbuddy starting talking about taking things further and trying out the "daddy" fantasy I have.... being told what to do, spanked, asking permission to touch him, begging for his load,punishments..ect. Well once things started getting going he started slapping not just my ass but my face. This caught me off guard because we never talked this over before he did it. Anyway the entire time we were messing around he beat my ass good (lots of bruising, reddness, and even a little blood) and my face got a bit swollen. I liked it dont get me wrong but I need pointers on how to establish a safe word, guidelines,ect... also his new thing is calling me his "cumslut" anyone have other pet names that are similiar but not the same... something about cumslut just doesnt sit well with me Thanks for help!