Hi, I've been here and asked this before but I'm back again. Situational Erectile Dysfunction. Basically it means that when I am by myself and masturbating I have no problem achieving or maintaining an erection. Even if I'm making out with a girl there normally isn't any problem at all. But when it comes time for intercourse I have trouble getting an erection. When I do I have trouble maintaining one. This is not an physical issue with me. This is a psychological issue. I apologize for being blunt but when there is no pressure to perform I'm a walking hard on. When there's pressure to perform I start to get nervous, worry that I may lose my erection and of course, do. I know what I need to do, I just need help doing it. I need to let go of the worry. I need to stop thinking about it and just enjoy being there with a beautiful woman. It's a ball of anxiety in my chest and I can't shake it. I'm not against advice from doctors but I am not going to entertain thoughts of medication because it's in my head. I just need to be able to relax. I'm really hoping for user feedback. Especially from people who have experienced this (both from the male and female side). How did you get past it? I've read online. I've had understanding partners. Typically, after I'm able to have sex with a woman once with no issues it's all a go from there. The problem is the first few times I have sex with a woman. HELP ME!