My wife was literally bouncing up and down as I read your replies to my earlier first posting on the vibrator issue. She'd love to start posting here I think...but she's still too, well, scared to at present. I think one day soon though you'll see her. She is considering letting me put up a test 'profile' of her on some dating sites...to see if there are other local women she could meet and get to know (we're in Southern Alberta, Canada - Lethbridge area). I'm wondering, what websites would you suggest we try? Also what has worked for YOU / your partner / friends in finding bi-females? THANKS.