Signs of Breakup in Hindsight

Discussion in 'Sex and Relationships' started by JTS, Feb 13, 2012.

  1. JTS

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    Asking both guys and girls here. After you've broken up with someone that you were in a relationship for at least a couple years or better, can you look back and say to yourself, yeah the signs were all there. I can kick myself for not seeing them, or admitting to myself the reality of what was perfectly evident. Whether it was a loss of interest in sex, different dress/attire worn by the ex, things that were said, behavioral changes, etc., what was it that you look back and say to yourself that that particular action or event or utterance should have illuminated the imminent breakup? Thanks in advance for your comments.....
     
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    Cessation of touch.
     
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    Got off with one of her friends at her 30th party, took another girl to a family party, and that's the stuff I can admit to without being castigated for life.

    God, I used to be such an arsehole.