Shy wife - drawing out her fantasies

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  1. newbrian

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    This is my first ever post. My wife and I have always been by the book sexually but we've started breaking out of our comfort zones. My wife is shy sexually so it's more difficult for her than me. She won't admit it but I know she is attracted to black men. She is white if u were wondering. Like alot of guys, I fantasize about my wife getting banged by another guy. My penis size is not that large so the image of her getting banged by a well endowed guy is pretty hot. A black guy is even better. Before I go any further, neither of us would actually act this fantasy out for real. But I would love to get ideas on how I could use this fantasy to spice our sex life up especially the black guy part since that is what gets her hot. She's not a big fan of porn because to her, it's staged and just about raw sex. Anyway, she's really starting to open up and this fantasy would be fun to play around with. Any ideas?
     
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    Just work on it. Talk and pry slightly every now and then. Patience is key. Also make her realize that no matter what she reveals, you still love her and it won't change anything for the worse, and it'll really help the both of you.

    Wait a second... A topic that I've got experience in... I think I'm supposed to get a badge or something now.
     
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    Thanks OverSinged. A few years ago, I wouldn't have had a clue. Now I know what u said is important and why we are where we are. Now it's the fun part. Discovering the fantasies and trying to figure out how to take advantage of them!
     
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    You might try getting some black sex toys to play with, maybe a dildo or a strap on. You could also try some costumes or role playing.
     
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    Tactical coercion to take advantage of your lady in a way that'll have her squirming (in the good way)? I like this guy, we seem to think quite a bit alike.

    I will warn you that you may learn a few things that you might not like as much though* I'm too apathetic to really have such things bother me when I learned from my lady-friend, but some poor shabuirs aren't me :p