I met a neighbor guy about a month ago (both in our late 50’s) and we have been visiting each other, getting to know one another, and he flirts outrageously but in a very humorous way -- lots of sexual innuendos. He has been divorced a long time ago and had a girlfriend for a while and is not a player. I want to take this flirting friendship a step further for a sexual encounter. My question= do I show off my “moves” on the first encounter or should I play it more vanilla and just follow his lead? I don’t want to overwhelm him but do want him to want more -- not just a one time thing -- hopefully leading to a relationship. Thoughts?