[Ask a Girl] Showing Interest

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  1. thelonelyvirgin

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    I have to be the world's worst guy when it comes to the ability to let girls know I'm interested in them.

    Let me give you a short story: Last week I was at a party chatting with this girl. She was attractive, and it seemed like we were having some fun. She eventually left to party after a long conversation.

    I wanted to let her know I was interested in her, but I just don't have those tools. Hell, there's gotta be a better way to ask for a phone number than asking for it outright.

    Put yourself in her shoes, what would you have liked to hear?
     
  2. AGFUNK

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    Ask for my number. I've always liked guys that were straight forward.
     
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    Ask for it, but nicely....just come out and say you've enjoyed talking to her and say "Would you mind if I called you sometime?"
     
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    I agree!!!
     
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    Maybe something like "Hey I really liked talking to you, can I get you number so that maybe we could hangout sometime"
     
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    Any updates?
     
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    Or maybe take some hints from the discovery channel on mating rituals LOL

    ...He displays his dominance by cornering her and saying "hey white girl, get on ma dick", and since he's a creature that mates for life he also says, "I am going to plant my seed in you and you will have my babies" and then he tries to impress her by shooting a deer and after proving he is a strong hunter, he brings her food and other things to impress her and then does a victorious warrior dance without a shirt on. He then proceeds to punch another guy in the face in his jealousy, then follows her around for however long it takes to convince her that he is a worthy mate...

    That would work on me LoL
    <-------- Romantically Challenged hahaha
     
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    I knew there was more reasons I liked you.
     
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    I like a man who's forward and simple. Just tell me straight up that you'd like to take me out and if I like you it's a date.
     
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    Brother, you're playing mind games with yourself! No need to do that - leave it to the ladies; they're the pros at playing mind games with you. :p

    Honestly being upfront tends to yield the best results in my experience. Personally I use humor a lot, so framing it in a way that seems kind of (BUT ONLY KIND OF) like you're joking around will help you play it off if you get denied. In any case...

    CONFIDENCE IS KEY!
     
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    I'd prefer a guy to confidently ask me outright. The worst that can happen is that I decline to give him my phone number.
     
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    Just say "hey I really enjoyed talKing to you, do you mind if i call you sometime".

    It's hard as HELL to do and you WILL get shot down occasionally but it's the times that you're NOT shot down that will make it worth it.
     
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    love a guy who can be straight forward, if you've got to the balls to ask I'll give my number
     
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    You are like really scary and freakish...Can I have your phone number and maybe we can talk sometime! LOL
     
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    I'll be honest, just because a guy it's brave enough to ask for my number doesn't mean he's getting it. Because there are a lot of guys out there with a lot more of these nuts (points to crotch) than these nuts (points to head). Lol
     
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  16. CaramelLady

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    If you had a nice conversation, simply ask. Do not let the opportunity pass you by.
     
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  17. CaramelLady

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    Agree. If he was a nut we would not talk. If he is a sleaze and would no leave me alone, I give him a number--just not mine.
     
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    here goes....

    i'd like to take you out (its them eyes) ? ;)
     
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    OK here is my opinion. Usually I ask guys out because the kind of guys I like are like you and never ask out with girls!

    But I don't like when a guy asks for a phone number. First of all, I don't like complete strangers having my number. Secondly, loads of guys get girls phone numbers and never call. I don't know why. Maybe they are too scared to call when they haven't had a drink or two, or don't know when to call, too early, too late. I think the main reason is men like the look of a woman but have absolutely nothing to say to them!

    I prefer if a guy asks me out to a place. If I like the guy I will say "that would be nice!", if not I will decline!

    Just ask her if she wants to go to the movies, an art exhibition, something to eat, a walk in the park. Offer to take her out!
     
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  20. CaramelLady

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    Hey!!!!! I have eyes too and you never asked me out!! o_O
     
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