So my girlfriend and I have been together for a little over a year, and within maybe the first couple of months we started to slowly get more and more sexual. The greatest extent we've gone to is basically male and female hand jobs(? I don't know what you would call that on a female). Obviously I want to have sex, I'm on a sex forum. She however doesn't and is absolutely sure she wants to wait until marriage, but when I ask her why she can't ever give a real reason. She's not religious in the least, and she's always talking dirty to me, asking for it hard and fast, but when I show up ready to give it to her she acts like I'm a pervert. The other day we did the same hand job thing, she went first. I performed the best I could, and I mean it was probably the best I had ever done. I could feel her muscles spasming all over, it turned me the hell on. Anyway, months ago she really enjoyed doing the same for me, but now all she wants is for me to hurry up and get there. I know it's not always easy, I can spend half an hour on her with a hand that has gone completely numb and then struggle to write an essay a few hours later with sore joints... but with her if I don't get there in 5 minutes she starts complaining about how long I take and how much her arm hurts and... well you get the picture. She just wants me to get there fast, whereas when I do it to her I try to make it an enjoyable experience for her. It's about the ride not just the destination. As I was saying, she doesn't want to engage in sex until marriage, but I've told her that I'm a poor college student trying to make it to medical school. I can't exactly go buy her the ring she wants (which she had me go to a diamond store with her just to make sure I knew which $5000 ring to buy) let alone get married any time soon. College sucks up so much time, and when I'm not studying or working out I'm with her. I've told her that I have sexual needs, as I know she does, and these sessions we have are basically simulations of what we really want. But, she's adamant about not having sex until marriage... which just gets me pissed because she teases me so much. All the time texting about how much she wants me inside her, or moaning in the car and acting like she wants it now.... Today I took a stand, I said I was done with these bullshit temptations, and that if she wants sex, awesome, I'm there all the way go team yay. If not, don't fucking taunt me like a dog drooling over dangling steak. Well she freaked on me and asked why she wasn't good enough without sex, and that waiting until marriage will make our intimacy deeper than ever, and by not having sex we can prove to ourselves that we can get through anything together. That just irked me, so I said fine, no sex forever. Let's just abstain from sex entirely and that'll be that. She said fine... then she acted hurt all day until she needed my help later with her photography class. We went out for pizza tonight, and on the way in the car she kept "accidentally" letting fake moans out and then covering her mouth in shame and smiling. When we got to her place I explained that these hand jobs aren't happening anymore. She wasn't happy with that answer, as she was horny. I really really really don't think things will last with her. Should I pursue sex or should I just leave her? This is really open to anyone, guy or girl. I just have it posed to guys as I'm male and I want to hear a consensus.