Met this girl back in October, we hit it off pretty good. I can say I felt a real strong spark and initial attraction, pretty sure she did too. We've been intimate, no sex but we both wanna take it slow. Problem is she has a lot on her plate, 2 jobs and getting her masters, this is fine but I feel like she is not making effort to see me. When we do see each other its a Lil awkward at first cause its usually 2-3 weeks between dates so it takes me a second to get into a comfortable zone with her, but when we're there its great. We share a lot of passionate kisses and I've asked her twice where she wants to go with this relationship she says she wants to take it slow and does like me. That's good and all, but her actions say otherwise. She has been AWOL lately, I called her Christmas Eve and text her Christmas day, she hits be back that night merry Xmas! I got a migraine I will get at you later.. new years week she stops answering my calls 3 days prior and hits me up Saturday evening via text asking bout my holiday... I'm not her man or anything, but I do feel slighted by this, I think most people would. I really like this girl, her first impression was very strong on me, but I am thinking that's blinding me to the obvious. My friends say I should just forget about her, but I want to confront her on this. If she don't want me that's fine, I'm a grown man I will keep it moving, I just feel I am owed at least an explanation for the change. What do y'all think, should I just write her off as a loss, or should I try to figure out what's going on with her?