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Discussion in 'Sexual Fetishes and Fantasies' started by nicpin, Nov 3, 2008.

  1. nicpin

    nicpin New Member

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    I have recently found myself looking at shemale porn on the internet and becoming addicted to watching it and becoming extremely excited and of course masturbating about shemales. sometimes twice a day
    I am not gay I am happly married 20 years. i love my wife and we enjoy sex and are very open about things. she does not know about this

    Is this normal i find i am totally addicted to the beautiful blonde ones with nice tits and there clean bodies and shaven hard penis's

    What should i do i want to stop
     
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    Why do you want to stop?
    Isn't your shemale porn-watching harmless? It's the same as watching any other porn, isn't it? It gets you off. It doesn't hurt anyone.

    If you're not planning on leaving your wife for a shemale or something along those lines, I think watching shemale porn is perfectly acceptable.

    Maybe you could ask your wife for her opinion. If you had her approval, would you want to stop watching it?
     
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    My thoughts exactly. Methinks you are feelilng guilty because you said you are open about everything and you are hiding this from her. Fess up, dude!
     
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    Thanks girls for your replys and support but what if i tell my wife and she does not understand i may create future problems in our relationship, It may affect our sex life at the moment i am at a horny peak from watching the shemale porn apart from masturbating twice a day i still able to do it with my wife
     
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    I know what you mean. There are things I would like to try sexually with my wife that I'm afraid to bring up for fear she'll think I'm a weirdo. More than likely the shemale thing will end up being something you keep to yourself and fantasize about while you masturbate.
     
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    I have to say i agree with this on this occasion while i am all up for telling you SO everything, there are certain things you should keep fairly much to yourself unless you have a fair idea they have similar fantasies. For example do NOT tell your girlfriend you have masturbated while thinking about her mum/sister/best friend or whatever. This is one of those things.
     
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    something you could try is asking her if she'd be interested in some strap-on play and go from there?
     
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    Amateur Nudist New Member

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    Even that would be enough to freak out a lot of women. I can already see the look on my wifes face if I told her I wanted her to wear a strap on and fuck me. :nerv
     
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    recently i found myself into shemale porn too, although im str8 but id like to try something different
     
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    My DH likes just about every kind of porn, including she-males and gay. He says he even fantasizes about sucking cock. I have a feeling he might do it if he had the opportunity. He is pretty much "open" sexually. He also likes anal stimulation, which I'm glad to give him. I've asked him if he wants me to try a strap-on. He hasn't given me a yes or a no on that, but it might be fun. It would have to be a skinny one - he doesn't like anything too big in there. He says there's no way he'd want a "boyfriend" but he wouldn't mind some experimentation. I would say he has "bi" tendencies.
     
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    just out of curiosity, what is it about shemales thats such a turnon?

    theres a metric fuckton of chicks with dicks floating around the interweb, so clearly its a fairly common thing, but its not something I've ever really seen the point of myself...

    Admittedly its probably one of those things that you can't really explain or couldn't put into words even if you could (hell, I have no idea why boobies are attractive, its not like they even *do* anything)

    on a side note, you don't have to jump into strapon plan right away, you could start off small and work your way up. I hear prostates are fun to play with, so she might be comfortable with a dildo or a finger up the back passage to start with. Then if she enjoys that...
     
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    Not so sure why shemales are such a turn on. Many of them are very attractive, busty, and look all female until they take off their panties where they are hiding perfect sets of cocks and balls. Maybe just the shock value makes it a turn on for some. For others, it may be a bisexual thing?? They are not at all sexually appealing to me as they are too female for my taste.
     
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    I've been doing the same thing from time to time, the way I see it, she-males represent the closest thing to the ultimate sexual experience featuring the best of both worlds.
     
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    I myself am also into shemale pornand find myself fascinating about a shemale. not sure what to do.
     
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    Back on point people! lol

    Nicpin, do both of you watch porn together? if so, slip one in the next time and gauge her reaction. Just say it looked different to you at the rental store/online/download site (wherever you get your porn) and you wanted to see what it was like.

    If she cringes at the mere mention, you have your answer. if she fucks your brains out afterward, you have another answer. if she gets up in the middle to have a smoke, and she does not smoke.. well there are other things going on there, but you should get my drift.

    Be honest if you need to be but you dont have to hit her with a bat either!

    Good luck, let us know what happens either way.

    V
     
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    A lot of straight guys get a kick out of watching porn that might be considered "taboo", it is that aspect of it that might be exciting. Shemales seem to be one of the more popular turn ons. But if you were to get off on some peeing videos or hetero bondage you might still feel like you have to keep it secret from your partner if you knew/thought your partner would not understand.
    I don't think you're doing something wrong if you you just like watching the stuff or have a fantasy about it now and then, but if it starts to infect your relationship, eg, you start saving all your pennies for a one way ticket to Thailand, then that is when you have to start thinking of solutions.
     
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    I would love to get it on with a shemale. The best of males and females. Only problem is I want them to be tiny like me for the girl aspect of their body and usually a guy to girl doesn't do too well in that aspect. I love dickgirls!
     
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    Re: She-male

    I think there is a normal fascination with she males. It's kind of like people stopping to look at a car wreck. It's strange to see a beautiful "woman" only to discover that she has a dick. I have found myself watching it from time to time and have even wondered what would happen if I found myself in the position to be hot and heavy with a she male without knowing it and then discovered the surprise. There are times when I think it would be kind of fun. Maybe it's a way of exploring the "bi" side but kind of being with a woman.

    I would say you only have to worry if it starts effecting your relationship with your wife. There is nothing wrong with fantasizing.
     
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    Yeah... I would like to say the same thing. Fess up
     
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    would you wife wear a strap on for you?

    all the tranny advantages, minus the body odour!