[Ask a Girl] She wants to know

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  1. Golden Rule

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    My girlfriend knows that I masturbate every once in a while, which is not a problem for her. Recently, though, she said she wants me to tell her when I do. She wouldn't say why.

    I've heard woman say they don't care that their man jerks off, but they don't want to know. So I'm a little perplexed.

    Any help?
     
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  2. IMNaughty

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    Maybe she wants to know so that she can go and play with herself as well. This could easily lead to phone sex, some fun, some flirting, etc... I know I love when I know that someone is masturbating.
     
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    Actually if I am into a guy I find it a turn on and can be very sensual to watch.
    So maybe it's turning her on.
     
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    So ... why am I not getting messages when you are?
     
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    I like this answer.

    She is kind of shy about sex, so this is certainly a possiblity.
     
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    It couldbe a turn on for her. I certainly like getting a text when my partner is masturbating. Self love is good...and hot!
     
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    Don't stress over it, if she wants to know tell her.
    Maybe you can start telling her little details about your masturbation session and she how she reacts to that.
    I'd also hint to her if she would like to watch you.
     
  8. Gingerbear

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    Sounds like an awesome gateway to communication.
    Def don't over think it.
    There has been times that watching my husband is the hottest thing ever.
    The first time I couldn't help but to give him a bj while he stroked.
     
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    I do think that's her way of telling you she would be open to watching you or maybe even participating.
    I do enjoy watching when it's someone your comfortable with.
    I'd say test the waters...
    Send her a text tell her what your doing & ask her what she would like to do to you if she were there.
    Can't wait to hear an update ;)
     
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    I know you're asking girls, but i think perhaps what should be clarified is if she wants to know before you masturbate or after the fact..
    She may very well be looking to join in or something, but this could also be her way of intervening, getting a say as to whether or not you get sexual satisfaction without her input.
     
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    That's what always happens to me when I try to (only) give my husband a handjob :D
     
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    Lol yes I seem to have the same problem.
     
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    I can't wait to find out what happens. And I'll be sure to let you know.
     
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    Yes, please do! :)
     
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    Loves to be watched here. Got time?
     
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    I'm sad to report that nothing has happened lately, but that's due to her not feeling well lately. More to come... like me. :)
     
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    My ex GF loved when i would jerk off. She would call me at work and ask me to go jerk off in our companies darkroom (Photo Studio). She would want me to fantasize about being with other women. Yeah... I did many times and loves every session. I would go home to her and she would ask me what I would fantasize about and we would go at it.

    I think she wants to know so she can masturbate also.
     
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    keep us posted and good luck!
     
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