Hello, I need advice on my situation. I met this girl back in June of this year. She did not have a boyfriend at the time I met her. She came to my apartment and chilled and we both hit it totally off. We almost had sex but I felt there was something to pursue with her so I held off. She said that night I was the most perfect guy she has ever met, etc. Then, that Sunday, she calls me crying that she ran into her ex (4 1/2 relationship and broke up a few times) and he was with another girl and her feelings came back to her. So, I took the hint and started to talk to her everyone now and then. In the meantime, she started to talk to this other guy I knew from the bars. I asked her a few times if she ever hooked up with him and she said no. Then, she said she "missed" the way I used to say I think she was the one and so forth. I am in my late 20's so I am pretty experienced with relationships might I add! So, I started to be all lovey dovey with her again and she met me at a bar about 2 months later. We were just meeting up as friends but she had a few drinks and we ended up sucking face in the parking lot. About 2 weeks after this, we met up at another bar and she told me she loved me and I told her I loved her. She is still with her boyfriend at this time!!! heh So, I have never seen a girl why she was seeing someone else so this was new to me. I went along with it and we ended up going home that night and having sex for the 1st time. I have seen her at least 1 day a week since that night and had sex with her almost every night. Then, he drunken tells me that she met him on a date and that she wanted to have sex with him too then one night. I asked her about it and she came clean and told me she did hook up with him but what does that matter since I was not going out with her? LOL She claims she loves me and was supposed to cut it off with him last night but calls me today like nothing is wrong. I told her I don't think I can be put on the side anymore and that she has to choose 1 guy. She says she cannot do that now and it is hard. All she does is bitch and complain about this guy but cannot leave him? Come on, don't say you love me and sleep with me then go home and say you love him? Then, to top it off, I was talking to her tonight and I guess he showed up drunk at her house and she says oh, I have to go, and I hung up and said whatever. She goes, "don't get mad!" LOL..what am I supposed to do? I wrote her a big e-mail after the phone call tonight basically explaining I am done unless she tells him to hit the road. Can everyone comment on this and let me know if I did the right thing and what she is trying to freakin' accomplish? OK, night, thanks for the venting!