Hey everyone. I know this topic is good and bad for everyone. Me and the wife have been discussing the natural (how to spice things up). We've been together for quite a while and have been trying a lot of new things but need a refresh. Surprisingly we've both brought up having sort of an open relationship. Or experimenting with a threesome. She's mostly for the open thing because then she'd just be going off with 1 person = less pressure and a little more surprise involved. I'm not asking for comments on our personal decision. I've been as much a promoter of the idea as she has come up with it. We both love each other very much and trust each other and just need a refresh.... My question is for her. She wants to find someone safe. But preferably someone she doesn't know and someone that will be patient with her. How should I go about finding this person for her?