Okay, Let me link to the youtube video of 2 songs, in case anyone isn't familiar with these songs. Divinyls - I Touch Myself - YouTube Alannah Myles (Official Site) Black Velvet - YouTube So we have 2 different songs which I am of the opinion both are very sexy. Black Velvet is a little slower while I Touch Myself is a little faster. If my wife did a dance to Black Velvet it would be a turn-on to me, but she prefers faster pace songs for sexyness. So I've heard this before that it's a difference in what women and men find sexy, so I thought I'd poll the populace. And really what I'm getting at is whether there's a correlation between what each gender finds sexier, namely slower or faster pace... So if you don't like either song then just pick Black Velvet if you like the slower pace and I Touch Myself if you like the faster pace. While I'm asking in terms of music, it could apply more generally to other aspects of sexuality so consider it open to your interpretation.