Can anyone help me out? I have been dating this girl for about three weeks and although I have slept in her bed with her, no sex. Just making out and mutual masturbation. However, today she was texting me while she was at work asking all this stuff about sex.. Is she trying to build the tension? Does she want sex? Her: whats your fav sexual act besides sex? Me: giving the girl oral Her: it's official, you're a keeper lol Me: I love sucking and licking smooth wet pussy. And than playing with it using my fingers. Her: haha Her: What do you want a girl to do to you? Me: Take charge and do her thing Her: I am actually very aggressive person...just you have only seen my good side Me: What do you like? Her: you giving me oral for sure Her: I actually don't give it often, I make the guy earn it Me: that is good not to often, I want it to be a challenge Her: most guys would be upset hearing that...what planet are you from? I mean I like your response ALOT, but wow Me: all this talk makes me want to rip your office clothes off and..... Her: and......? Me: play Her: what is 'play" code word for? Me: eat and fuck you Her: ahhhh don't tempt me Me: Ok I wont tempt you. Your probably really tired, sweaty, and need to relax before having your friends come over Her: ok, I need DICK lol but yes.. I have to clean my apartment and myself before they all come over tonight. Me: Maybe if I have the time this weekend we can snuggle? Her: yesssssss but no sex Me: why is something wrong? Her: I am horny and all but want to wait till things are right, like full feelings So did I do or say something wrong? How should I go about this?