As in, can it become a serious issue down the road of the relationship, for either male or female. If sexual satisfaction tends to get/feel low during sex? From what I'm to understand, they say sexual satisfaction can play a major role in a relationship no matter how much 'in love' a couple is. There are certain things I feel like I'm missing out with my girlfriend sometimes, and it's kind of a big mess as to why I'm missing out it. I'm the kind of guy that's really into having a girl go down on me, no surprise right? Not true actually. I've met a couple of guys who are as equally disgusted by it. I'm not, and I'd like it if she was into it. I go down on her also, I simply love giving it. I wish she would too also, and it's not just a simple "thing" I like. It's really more of a 'kink' I'm very into. She's so weird about it though I sometimes DO feel dissatisfied during sex. I feel like everything's not there during intercourse, and believe me. I've tried finding ways to forget about getting a blowjob. I've tried the roleplaying with her, she'd dance into my bedroom wearing a catholic school girl outfit. It was fucking amazing...watching her in the outfit I mean. The sex was fine too but I felt something else coulda been in there. Then I've tried maybe killing my own kink somehow, I thouht about how when I walked into my parents bed room when I was five, looking for my brothers, and there they were. Going down south. I'm still craving the kink. I've even tried the ol' "please your girl as much as possible to get yourself off" thing, it's great, but it eventually lost it's luster as I'm still missing that key ingredient. The only reason I ask this question is not be come off as a 'dick', or a 'jerk'. I really do love my girl, we've been through hell and back but I worry that if the sex stops being as good as I would like it to be, I'd be hesitant to look elsewhere. I never wanna cheat on her, but I'd never want to leave because the sex "wasn't good enough anymore". Am I wrong to feel this way? I could provide more details if anyone response with any interest to better explain the situation from both sides.