Sexual "regrets"

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  1. HotForHoney

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    What if any sexual "regrets" so you have? Either from something you did or a missed opportunity.

    I guess we can add the flip side - something you passed up on that turned out to be good.


    A convo started this thought.... I "regret" exbf not taking a pic of him fucking my ass.

    I somewhat regret a ONS. It let me know how I feel about them and my emotional reaction. I should have just listened to my head.
     
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    Passing on what I thought was going to be a 3some years ago with an ex gf
     
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    Interesting thread. I think its really 50/50 on people regretting things they did NOT do vs things theyve done. I've been very open for a long time and recently joined a lifestyle club with my gf, so I have tried to not say no to much during those experiences.

    1 regret I can think of is driving 2 hours to participatie in a gangbang of an ex-gf, who i had not spoken to in months. She was being such a bitch (just as i remembered) to all the guys and even her 'bouncers' who were there to protect her through the whole thing. After a while, I ended up opting out.
     
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    Several years ago, my admin went through a rough divorce and during that time came on to me. I wasn't in a place to cheat on my wife at the time, so I didn't do anything. Oh to turn back the clock. She was in her late 20 and had a body to kill for.
     
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    I regret not meeting my current love 30 yrs sooner.
     
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    You regret NOT cheating on your wife? I could never cheat on someone.
     
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    I can’t really think of any hardcore regrets from sexual encounters. There might be a few that wouldn’t have hurt my feelings if we hadn’t had sex but no real regrets. The only regret that stands out in my mind is a missed possible “Hook-up”. One of those chance encounters that had the makings of a good story in Penthouse Forums but never materialized.
     
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    just thinking logistically how this would have been possible lol......... bloody long arms o_O
     
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    anal from behind would allow easy photo taking
     
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    not by the female and in this case HFH wanted to take it 6^
     
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    And just what do these voices in your head say? LOL
     
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    HFH only said she wished that her ex bf had taken pics of him fucking her ass. i would assume (pun intended) that she meant him taking the picture
     
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    Since you asked... image.jpg
     
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    I'd say that I sometimes regret not taking more initiative sooner - that surely would have changed the time frame on me entering the world of sex. Then I realize that it's probably a good thing - I don't feel personally that I was on the right maturity level before (and question if I am even now :p)

    Honestly I think my one true sex regret is that I started out with an unfair and selfish view of how things should be done. Good thing I learned differently quickly or things could've ended badly and a long time ago with The Lady.
     
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    I like how you call her "The Lady"!
     
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    Regrets I have a few but .......I fucked them all up my way ;)
     
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    I guess if I go waaaay back. There was that time that I tried to set my buddy up with a girl .. I was to be with her friend.. We were supposed to all go out, I showed up, and the girls showed up but my buddy just didn't show. Girls and I had drinks. Went out to my truck where things got interesting.. Playing around a bit, they both went down on me .. Then we decided to go back to one of the girls places... Was going to be my first real 3 some... But when I got there one of the girls came running out and said a boyfriend had showed up...oh well.. Might have been fun, I'll never know.. Lol I think I was about 21 then.. Loooooong ago....
     
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  18. oldkid

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    I guess It's about time I weighed in here. I regret that I was born 54 years too early. No explanation needed.
     
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    I met a man at a department store. We talked while we waited for our products to come up from the stock room. There was a mutual attraction. I paid first and left. He ran out of the store and reached my car before I pulled out. He said the cashier thought I was very pretty and she could tell he liked me, he did not think I would be interested because he was white. He looked so hopeful when he asked for my number. I gave it to him.

    He called the next day and we talked. Nice conversation. He wanted to go out... then the fucker told me he was married! I said we could not go any further...

    My regret, is that he was married. We were very attracted to each other and I have always wondered... However to come between a husband and wife is not something I would do.
     
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    I regret not letting a few guys in my past have their wicked way with me lol. I also regret not getting more involved at fetish clubs when i was younger and unattached.
     
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