I have asked about this before in a more basic or tactless manner so I'll try again to see if anyone has a similar experience or interesting remarks. I had a good deal of sexual experience when my wife and I married, my wife on the other hand said she had very little except one long term BF. When we first got together she had no problem climaxing, it was usually two, one from oral before penetration and then one while we fucked, just penetration no finger play. I would say within two years or so the oral foreplay was reduced on her part until she was close and then she wanted to be penetrated and she would almost always come. After two kids there was less oral, her choice and more penetrave sex which she wanted from behind with me stimulating her clit as we went on. She would always come. So at about twenty years in she premenopausal and tremendously horny, I mean everyday, sometimes twice a day. But, I was having a hard time getting her off, here she is wanting it more than she did at 22 and I'm having trouble getting her off. I traveled for a living and I'm thinking she is going to get it somewhere, blaming myself. Then I talk to a random woman on a long flight and she tells me it's hormonal. It's not my fault. I'm relieved but then I realize my wife doesn't know this, she just wast to get off. I would get home and if she wasn't all over me I became paranoid she was fucking someone. So, on my next trip I picked up a dildo, a large dildo. Probably eight inches insert able and thick, porn movie thick. Then I think coming back she will never go for this so I play it off as a gag gift. Well, she was all over it. The first time I used it on her I went down on her for a minute or two till she was good and wet and then I started using it, slowly and as she instructed. Several head insertions with full removal asking if it hurt and hearing not at all. Then I get it in about 4-5 inches and that's all the depth she wanted, keeping her hands in position to stop me if I try and go deep. About ninty seconds into the slow strokes she goes off like a Roman candle. I mean I've never seen her come like that before. She went on for a good fourty seconds or so and then collapsed. I started to pull out and she stopped me, " just leave it for a minute" she said. Then she sat up on her elbows, ( she was on her back) and told me to take it out slow. She was watching it come out and when the head which was a little thicker than the shaft made its way over the last two inches or so she seemed to come again, very quick though. He remark as she laid back was, " OMG that was fucking incredible" then she wanted me. Well, I didn't last long as you can imagine and the conversation began with me commenting about how fast and how hard she orgasmed. She was disoriented, " was it fast? OMG it was fast, I think it was because you were watching it." Then she started on the orgasm. I said I had never seen her come even close to that and she tried to blow it off saying she was just real excited, saying it had nothing to do with the size. Of course she was trying to protect my feelings but I was like come on. Then in a couple of years she was through menopause and the sex became a once a week and then less and less until she said she just didn't have the urge anymore. I talk to lots of people that say this is common and some women that say their drive didn't diminish at all. She can't take hormones due to family history of cancer. For some reason I just feel the need to talk about it, she won't discuss it anymore. The only time she wants sex is if she drinks and she doesn't drink much anymore. I'm 60 and still horny. What do you do?