Sexual Philosophy

Discussion in 'General Sex Discussion' started by mjtonks, Nov 16, 2006.

  1. mjtonks

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    I am just curious to know various peoples views and opinions on sex are and if they have any special sexual philosophy they go by when they get into 'business' with their partner.
     
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    Yip, I want to make it as pleasurable for him as I can. I want to show him exactly how much he means to me and how much I adore his body.
     
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    It's all about respect, first of all. Don't do anything or ask your partner to do anything that you wouldn't want done to yourself.

    Girls, if you insist on your man giving you oral sex you must recripocate.

    Guys, before you ask your girl to swallow your load you should swallow your own in order to see what it's like.

    And guys, unless you find the idea of being anally penetrated with a strap-on (or a real dick) appealing don't ask if you can give your girl anal, unless she's willing and suggests it first.

    That also goes for giving a girl a facial. Unless you wouldn't mind having someone spray your face with sperm, don't do it unless your girl asks you to.
     
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    Puss in Boots I couldn't put it better myself!

    I think its a case of do unto others as you would have them do to you. Put yourself in their shoes - if you wouldn't like it, then neither would they. However, as lnog as you are respectful, I think its fine to talk about doing new things
     
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    I have always felt that sex was my way of showing how much I can about someone. It is my way of showing passion but as I get older and things change I feel less that way. I now am feeling more on the lust side. I never really had that lusting when I was younger and I think that it is showing. Puss n boots makes some good points. I can't help but wonder how much of that stuff is fueled by porn. I am not saying that it is a bad thing but would people really think of doing it if it was not in front of them all the time.
     
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    It's all about love and appreciation. I just want my man to be happy, and in turn, he has the same attitude about sex as I. We try to show the love we're always feeling.
     
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    I think that all of a person's sexual energy should be focused on pleasing their partner, and it should be because you want to rock their world, not because you're investing in a sexual pay-off of your own. I don't think there's any room for selfishness in the bedroom. Of course there will be times when you're entrenched in a zone of pleasure and can't think of anything else, but, IMO, it should be consequential and not a goal.

    Yes! I was going to say the exact same thing :) I'll just add that consideration should be a vital element, as well. If a woman has an "off" taste, she should be willing to invest in something like SweetSpot wipes to make oral enjoyable for him. And if a guy's cum is unpalatable, he should be willing to do the fruit diet, or pineapple juice, or take supplements like Sweet Secretions, to make the experience enjoyable for her.

    Consideration for a partner includes respecting their boundaries. If someone doesn't feel comfortable doing something, I think a good lover will make the effort to understand why that is and won't pressure him/her to do it.
     
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    My sexual philosophy id

    Do whatever feels good to both of you
    and do whatever turns both of you on.
     
  9. igor

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    3 words: She cums first!
     
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    Well as is true with most businesses it's all about location, location, location! Oh, and the Customer (Girl:bow) is ALWAYS right ^.~
     
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    I want to pleasure my wife so that she enjoys it and wants to reciprocate and do it often.
     
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